21 day cycle???? Need help ladies :(

[charlie07]

https://www.babyandbump.com/trying-conceive-ttc/15030-signs-maybe-not-signs-its-hard-work.html

This is where I have put my story, but I need to know if anyone has gone through this!

I came off the pill years ago (6 - 7), had a mc in March but been pretty much regular since then, I can say normally between 30 - 35 days I will have my period. Last month it was 28 days, 1st time ever, this period started on 23rd November. Now I started spotting yesterday, had sore boobs since I came off my period in November (until yest, today not so bad but still slight bruising), not due to start until the absolute earliest 21 st December but now I am passing a little more red blood, still not much but definately not brown anymore. What the hell is going on??? I mean it would mean my cycle has only been 21 days!!! Is this possible?? I have never never never been a regular 28 dayer except when I was on the pill, 28 days I would be happy with but 21!!! Now the weird thing is I seemed to have the egg white in with my last period, could this mean I was ovulating during my period and now that that is passing??? Is that why I am so early?? The last period I had I had no synptoms whatsoever, in fact I wish all periods could be like that, no pain at all!! But how on earth am I supposed ti work out the ebst time to bd if my body has decided to go stupid??

Please anyone with advice, I would soooooooooooooooooooooo really appreciate it. Anyone else gone through this? Anything I can do?

 

[Sinead]

I don't have answers for you. Didn't want to ignore though

 

[charlie07]

Thanks Sinead. I guess I have waffled in my other posting, now started this one, I think everything is affecting me more than I've admitted to myself. I think if this had happened before I wouldn't be worrying/panicking/waffling/etc etc, but it's never happened. I coudl always rely on my perios being late, not early. It's just totally confused me and I'm not sure where I'm supposed to go from here.

I think I'll just go with the flow and have a nice glass of wine tonight and chill out an relax watching Midsommer Murders. Oh and chocolate - now there's something else, I have 2 blocks of choc in the fridge and I look at it and not want it. Now that is not me!!!!! I may force myself tonight

 

[HAYS]

good on u, sorry no advice really hun, must be difficult tho to determain ovulation days? maybe trying an ovulation kit? or just bd as much as you can throughout the month, cant do no harm lol

x

 

[charlie07]

I feel so tired today, sat at my computer and my eyes are closing. No period pains, boobs a little bruised but not as much as the last 2 weeks or even yesterday.

Tried talking to other half but he just said age, there again I mentioned that so he's just picking up on what I said ......men!! I am just confused about what could have messed my cycle up so much, I've felt great these last few weeks, so this is really annoying. I thought I was getting into a routine, writing everything down, anything that may help me end up with a bfp, but now back to the drawing board springs to mind.

Thanks anyway, I didn't think anyone could help, we are all different, what happens to one may not happen to another, I'll just ride it out and see what happens. I'm a little p$@#ed off now

 

[justlovely]

I am a bit late to responding to this post, but I took Vitex last month to regulate my cycles and it helped. I went from a 24 day cycle to a 28 day cycle. I took 2 capsules every day and still am.