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[sarah0108]

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[mummydove]

i have had the same problem with my EX. DS is now 2 and both years at xmas he has been with me and my ex on boxing day. I know that people will say that this is not fair he still has rights but i am affraid that i am one of those people that thinks he gave up most of those when he walked out on us.

I think that as long as you make an effort to compromise (offering them boxing day) then don't let them get to you.

I except that when DS is older he can make his own choice but until then, you are the one that is there 24/7 so you can IMO make the choice.

 

[starbucks101]

agree with you mummydove i would never give access for my LO on , xmas eve or xmas day.