good news!! Thats good that she was so helpfull and you didnt have to make an appointment and stuff,
Yeah send the email later, maybe after xmas just before enw year or something, Just get the baby out safely first. And his mother is being an interfering busy body!!
they need to back off, but yeah you guys should just ignore them. maybe you can get their number blocked on your phone just now so she cant consistently ring your mum
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