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[expecting09]

I know what you mean about the CSA Lou, I still don't know whether to call them. Ive got this far without FOB's money, I'm sure I can carry on. I'm not sure if it's worth all the hassle

 

[teal]

I have mixed feelings about the csa aswell. I'm leaning towards not bothering. FOB hasn't made any effort at all throughout my pregnancy - other than some harassing/threatening emails so I think I'd rather have nothing to do with him.

 

[lou_w34]

Same as both of you! If he's not gunna bother then i dont need him, ive got this far without any help from him and i dont need it, if he did give me money then it would just be a bonus. I guess thats just my pride talking though lol, cos at the same time i think why the hell should he get away with it!

And as for being cold hearted i think we need to be at times heehee
xx

 

[teal]

I sometimes think that he shouldn't get away with not providing but I still think, for me, csa would create more problems.

I keep feeling really emotional about it all at the moment but I think that's because I'm getting nearer to the end of my pregnancy. xx

 

[lou_w34]

Same here... it would cause more problems!

And yay!!!! Your nearly at the end!!!!!!

xx

 

[sweetlullaby]

Ditto on the causing more problems..dont want any more abuse and harrassment off FOB.

Teal your getting so close to the end of your pregnancy Dont let anyone ruin it xxxx

 

[teal]

Thanks girls I just feel really overwhelmed at the moment. I think it's a mixture of new baby worries and the whole being a single mother. Hoping it all passes once I have him here.

On the plus - I've not heard from FOB in a month (since his emails at christmas). Hoping it stays that way but a bit worried he comes back out from under his rock once baby is here.

 

[lou_w34]

I know its hard, but try your best not to let him get to you... my one regret about being pregnant was how much i let fob get to me... i feel like he ruined parts of it for me, but when it came down to it, i had nothing to worry about at all, and neither will you! xx