28 weeks pregnant and fobs just broke things off

[Kimberley1875]

He done it a few weeks ago and it took me a week to work round him and keep us together But this week hes been so off and distant and just a knob and today i was at the doctors and the were talking bout sending me to hosp...and although we werent really speaking i thought i better let him know and he just replyed il phone u when i get my lunch....he never did so i tried ringing him a few times and eventually at like half 5 he answered only to say were finished for good...fed up with u phonin all the time.
Im devestated...its our anniversary on sat and i cant belevie this has happened....i cant stop crying as i love him him to bit and cant do this myself???
xxx

 

[littlekitten8]

Hun I'm so sorry to hear that. Just wanted to give you massive hugs. And say that even though it doesn't feel like it right now, you CAN do this. You will be a great mum and you have all of us to rant at and ask for advice. The girls here are wonderful and we all support one another. Best of luck hun. Sounds like you are better off without him anyway hun

 

[Archies Mummy]

To be fair he sounds like a rite tw@. You and bubz dnt need that waster in ur lives, you're gunna be a fab mum on ur own, he's the one missing out if you ask me. Xx

 

[Kimberley1875]

Hes said to me a few times in the past when iv done things that im going to mess up being a mum and that and im terrified i cant have her myself. To be honest i want me him and the baby to be together. I just just cant understand why hes been so horrible x

 

[littlekitten8]

Most of it is all instinct hun. And the midwives teach you everything you need to know anyway. I thought I was going to be a rubbish mum but once he was here, even though it took a couple of weeks, I soon learned what each cry meant, when he was tired, hungry, just generally fed up. You will do just great. You will love your baby no matter what. And I know that its hard, and that you want to be a proper family. But you will find someone else who will be much better for you and your baby. He doesn't sound like a very good role model tbh. Just try to relax. Enjoy your pregnancy. And things will be how they are meant to be. I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason and obviously you are not meant to be with a flake.

 

[scottishgal89]

im really sorry your going threw this
yes you can do this. you and your lo are your priority!
i know its hard just now but trust me it will get easier in time.
if hes treating you like that hes not worth it anyway
hope your alright!! xx