2ww starting today

[Tanikit]

It does seem to make it more official when the doctor confirms pregnancy - thelistkeeper why are you a high risk pregnancy?

Well no spotting today. I woke with very low sugar levels today (I'm diabetic type 1) and it always makes me feel cold so I googled hypoglycaemia and it seems it can cause hypothermia - so since I haven't spotted today (I always spot at 12/13dpo) I am wondering if the low temp today was from the low sugars this morning. I guess I'll have to see what happens tomorrow, but trying to remain positive still.

 

[kayla's mommy]

i think a congrats is in order for you and yes my period is regular i have a 30 day cycle. yesterday i felt some cramping. so i dont know maybe that was my ovulating pains.

 

[thelistkeeper]

Tanikit, I am high risk because I have had multiple m/c, blighted ovum, and the 2 children I do have were both PROM (premature rupture of membranes) and early by 4 weeks with my son and 5 weeks with my daughter. I also have incompetent cervix, so I will need to have a cerclage (cervical stitch) placed ASAP to help keep the pregnancy going as long as possible. I even had bed rest with my 1st, strict, and some bed rest with my 2nd, tried to go into labor and had it stopped multiple times as well. So yeah, high risk is what they call me! LOL

 

[wantingagirl]

Congrats thelistkeeper and Lucia thats great news. Can I just ask what your CM was like before your BFP was it dry wet etc? Just waiting for my AF to arrive today!

 

[thelistkeeper]

Congrats thelistkeeper and Lucia thats great news. Can I just ask what your CM was like before your BFP was it dry wet etc? Just waiting for my AF to arrive today!

Well, I can tell you I have had 'extra' abundant amounts of CM. Very wet. But, it looks as though by pos test the other day was faulty or something has gone wrong. I got a on a CB digi this morning. The has not made an appearance yet, so I will test again by the weekend and just see, but it is not looking good. Starting to think testing early was NOT a good idea now...

 

[wantingagirl]

oh listkeeper im so sorry. When was your AF due as these digitals are less sensitive? The reason I ask is cos im really dry oh well I will need to wait it our and see I hope you get your positive again have you tried a more sensitive one again yet?

 

[xLuciax]

Umm my CM is really wet and clear like water

 

[Tanikit]

Well my temp dropped really low this morning so expecting AF - its a little later than normal though.

thelistkeeper hoping you will get another BFP tomorrow or at the weekend and that the digi you used this morning was just not sensitive enough.

 

[wantingagirl]

Thanks Lucia the only reason I ask as I think im out I have no cm at all but checked CP this morning and was really high and soft and know that it can change all the time so doesnt mean anything going to be so depressed if I get the witch today

 

[wantingagirl]

Well my temp dropped really low this morning so expecting AF - its a little later than normal though.

thelistkeeper hoping you will get another BFP tomorrow or at the weekend and that the digi you used this morning was just not sensitive enough.

Tanikit I hope she doesnt get you, when was your AF due, mines is today

 

[xLuciax]

How do you know its ur cervix ur touching ive never tried to do cervix checks?

 

[wantingagirl]

I read up on it the last time I conceived it took me a year, just feels like a kind of round ball and mines is always open now cos I have been through childbirth. It kind of took me a while but I got used to it. dont know why I bother tho as sometimes it doesnt go high in pregnancy until after a positive as it can move all the time different times of the day. Still getting cramp that eases on and off in my tummy and quite bad in my back. Took an IC yesterday which was BFN so too scared to test again

 

[thelistkeeper]

My AF was due Mon... no signs of yet, so I am holding out hope. Talked to my GP already this morning and she said to test again Sat and if not pos by then, and no AF, I may need to come in for a check up next week and we will go from there. But I will have to assume I am not pregnant if neg by Sat cause last time hubby and I were together was Mar 17th and I am pretty sure I O'd around Mar 20/21, so it really should show up by then, at least by the time I am a week late I would think anyway.

 

[thelistkeeper]

oh listkeeper im so sorry. When was your AF due as these digitals are less sensitive? The reason I ask is cos im really dry oh well I will need to wait it our and see I hope you get your positive again have you tried a more sensitive one again yet?

Well, I did another dollar store cheapie and there is a faint, and I mean FAINT line on it. So I am thinking something went wrong and it just didn't stick... I am out until next year when hubby gets back I guess, but it won't stop me from coming on here and cheering you other girls on to your BFP's!

 

[wantingagirl]

thelistkeeper I am so sorry to hear that. Is it the same brand as the first BFP you got?

 

[thelistkeeper]

thelistkeeper I am so sorry to hear that. Is it the same brand as the first BFP you got?

Yeah. The Dollar Tree sells one called New Choice, sensitive to 25 miu... I read that the CB Digi is supposed to be sensitive to 50 miu, but I should be there by now, got a faint pos last Fri, $ test, then neg Sun with FRER, which I have heard are for crap recently, so decided to do one Mon evening, $ test again and got a nice line. But here's the thing, just went and got it out of the box I put it in ( I save them, LOL) and it looked like the line bled and looked like a paint splotch. So maybe a faulty test? Then this morning another REALLY barely there faint line, but now it has disappeared. This has never happened to me with $ tests before. I am just thinking I was wanting it so bad, knowing it will be another year of waiting for hubby to get back... Ugh, I don't know what to think. I know God has a plan, and maybe it just wasn't my time yet, but it is still heartbreaking. And I also know with hubby gone it would have been more difficult but I was so ready! I know I could have managed.

 

[Tanikit]

Ah, sorry to hear that thelistkeeper - still hoping though that your hcG is just a bit low or the tests not sensitive enough - esepcially if AF is still not showing.

I started spotting this afternoon, AF is a little later than normal this month - I suspect CD1 will be tomorrow. I am also very disappointed - its going for 7 cycles now and I am starting to feel like it will never happen.

 

[thelistkeeper]

Aww Tanikit, so sorry you are feeling low... I wish I had some helpful advice, but the best I can do is and keep hoping you and everyone else wishing for a little sticky bean in the next year gets it. I am just thinking that it may be over for me. AF hasn't shown, no signs of her, but I am losing hope slowly... I do keep reminding myself that I did not test pos with my DS who is now going on 12 this year until I was 6 weeks! Had a neg blood at 5 weeks! But they kept saying I must have O'd late etc, well I knew exactly when and also knew exactly when he was conceived as well! And with my DD who is now almost 6, same thing, tested neg just when AF was due on urine and blood and did not get a pos till 5 weeks! So it is possible, but all this pos, then neg stuff has me a bit thrown! And with the recent blighted ovum and D&C in Jan, then the chemical in Feb, makes me think this is another situation like those, and maybe I did something wrong so that I am not allowed to have any more...

 

[wantingagirl]

thelistkeeper you would never do anything wrong please dont think like that and must be so hard that your OH is not there, we are all here to support you and really hope AF doesnt appear

Tanikit I know exactly how you feel im the same every month. I try and look at it like a month closer to the BFP but its sometimes easier said than done and when in the moment so difficult. We are all here for you

 

[wantingagirl]

any1 know whay my cycle length should be this month trying to work it out. 26 days last month 29 days month before dont know if you have to add and divide them together or something?