3rd time lucky......

[stardust22]

Glad to see you are all pondering over the "secret" 12 weeks thing. I too kept it all a secret and suffered a hard sicky 3 months only to tell the whole world when i found out baby had passed away. I was recovering from the operation and also time off work. So to me it makes no difference now.

I have only told my mum and dad. I just dont know what to do. Once we get the scan at 6-7 weeks I might tell my brother and sister, my sister is 20 weeks pregnant after IVF and I know she is treading carefully around me. It would be nice for her not to be worried about me.

I just dont think I will make it to 12 weeks. I keep having awful feelings that this is going to end badly and I dont think I can handle it.

Oh please please please stick my little beanie
x

 

[Round2]

I just dont think I will make it to 12 weeks. I keep having awful feelings that this is going to end badly and I dont think I can handle it.

Oh please please please stick my little beanie
x

Oh hun, I know it's natural to feel like that but you have to think positively. Just remind yourself that we have a 80% of carrying these babies safely. The odds are in our favour. We're doing everything we possibly can to protect these little beans. There's really no reason why we shouldn't have a baby in our arms next spring.

That being said - I know how hard it is to keep upbeat. You just have to take it one day at a time. You're pregnant today and are one step closer to you dream.

 

[louley]

Resting at home is only a good thing louley.
Just eat beans on toast and prenatal vitamins and you'll last for years!! Lol x

Hahaha my kinda thinking!

 

[louley]

Stardust, we all know how you feel , dont forget we're all here
xxxxx

10mins n im calling the doc for my first appt, even that gives me the willys

love to u all
xxxx

 

[stardust22]

I just dont think I will make it to 12 weeks. I keep having awful feelings that this is going to end badly and I dont think I can handle it.

Oh please please please stick my little beanie
x

Oh hun, I know it's natural to feel like that but you have to think positively. Just remind yourself that we have a 80% of carrying these babies safely. The odds are in our favour. We're doing everything we possibly can to protect these little beans. There's really no reason why we shouldn't have a baby in our arms next spring.

That being said - I know how hard it is to keep upbeat. You just have to take it one day at a time. You're pregnant today and are one step closer to you dream.

Sorry guys, dont mean to be so hum drum, I guess its the way things are for girls who are pregnant after a loss. I am just so thankful to be that day closer to the dream today

Stardust, we all know how you feel , dont forget we're all here
xxxxx

10mins n im calling the doc for my first appt, even that gives me the willys

love to u all
xxxx

Oh my god, I was the same just telling my doctor I was pregnant. I have anxiety all the blimmin time.

 

[louley]

glad your feeling bit better stardust, im the same, flitting between all sorts of emotions, im usually at my worst when im on my own first thing in the morning.
I bit the bullet and have seen the doc and booked our 1st midwife appt, next wed ......
kinda scared about it, but not as much as when it comes to the scan

keep ya chin up hun xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[louley]

Mimiuk,

how things going hun??

xx

 

[MimiUK]

Hi ladies!!!

good news from camp Mimi!!

had my scan today and saw the heartbeat!! YEY i am on

only 2% risk now.... always the odds game but i am in.

For me this is the most sucessful preganacy yet! whoopy

well done blob hang in there

x

I have attached the piccy, consultant says it is hanging the corner so is covered by the dotted line. Next scan 10 weeks!

 

[MimiUK]

Mimiuk,

how things going hun??

xx

Hey! sorry i went quiet! month end at work! always a bit crazy!

but was glad to escape the office today for my hosp appointment whoop whoop!

how are you all?

i was sooooooo nervous about my scan but seeing the little flickering heartbeat was just truly amazing! scans to me have never yeilded anything good until today. My Dr is amazing, she is just so down to earth! she makes the whole thing even better.

 

[Round2]

Congrats Mimi! What a lovely picture......can't wait to see the 10 week pic!!

 

[Vickieh1981]

welcome back x

scan sounds promising x i know the feeling of getting to at least 12 weeks ive terrible week envy at the moment looking at other peoples tickers lolx

Oooh I remember being that way hun. I now have it for people who are past 24 weeks.

Glad to see you are all pondering over the "secret" 12 weeks thing. I too kept it all a secret and suffered a hard sicky 3 months only to tell the whole world when i found out baby had passed away. I was recovering from the operation and also time off work. So to me it makes no difference now.

I have only told my mum and dad. I just dont know what to do. Once we get the scan at 6-7 weeks I might tell my brother and sister, my sister is 20 weeks pregnant after IVF and I know she is treading carefully around me. It would be nice for her not to be worried about me.

I just dont think I will make it to 12 weeks. I keep having awful feelings that this is going to end badly and I dont think I can handle it.

Oh please please please stick my little beanie
x

Maybe just tell her and ask her to keep it a secret?

We didn't tell anyone until 16 weeks - it was fun keeping it secret.

Hi ladies!!!

good news from camp Mimi!!

had my scan today and saw the heartbeat!! YEY i am on

only 2% risk now.... always the odds game but i am in.

For me this is the most sucessful preganacy yet! whoopy

well done blob hang in there

x

I have attached the piccy, consultant says it is hanging the corner so is covered by the dotted line. Next scan 10 weeks!

That's great news. It's wonderful when you see the heartbeat.

 

[Peril]

Congratulations Hun xx so pleased that this is progressing nicely for you! Yey!

 

[louley]

well done Mimi!!
really good to hear

saw midwife today n we've gotta book private if we want an early scan.....scans have not been good for me either, so true to form, nervous about the whole thing.

so happy for you
xx

 

[MimiUK]

Thanks ladies!! I know I am not even close to being out of the woods yet but I'll take what I can at the moment!!
The sickness had really kicked in now for me too.

Dh broke his own 12 week rule and told his family yesterday, this is great for me as I can tell too! Oh well, if the worst happens I want the support.

Love to you all and big sticky bean hugs xx

 

[ecenur]

Hi all,

after a big gap from B&B since my mc in may this year. I am (nervously) pleased to say i am back!

I am currently 4 weeks 6 days. I had an emergency scan yesterday as my first preganancy was ectopic and I was having pelvic pain in my right side but that seems to be due to a huge corpus luteum cyst that seems to be agrivating me........

however i was lucky enough to see a 4mm sac on my scan!!! in my uterus so this time no ectopic which is such a huge releif i can tell you!! i think i may have seen a glimmer of a bean in there but the consultant was pretty quick. wasn't to pleased to be called in over the weekend by another nurotic preganant lady

so it is fingers crossed now there is a bean in my sac and it is nice and settled in there.

has anyone else had a corpus luteum cyst in early pregnancy??

love to you all and hope you are not all worrying half as much as me

12 weeks feels like soooooo far away!!!

Time passes by so slow, when you think about it.

 

[louley]

Mimi
Just wanted to wish you all the best and hope things carry on perfectly for you xxx
Im afraid ive moved to miscarriage support now
Lots of n thanks for your support before
xxxx

 

[Rhi 778]

hello
this is my first post on baby and bump (so excuse the lack of abbreviations as i m still getting my head around what they all mean!) and hoping to get anyone's advice as i m praying i will be 3rd time lucky ..

i have been TTC since February. I suffered a complete miscarriage in September (6 + 2) and then a chemical miscarriage just 7 weeks later (approx 5 + 4 - as i didnt have a cycle in between i dont know exact timings). I have a doctors apnt tomorrow to see if i can have tests to find out if anything was to blame that can be corrected next time. I ve read some things that say it s fine to try straight away and others that say it s not so i just wondered if anyone did start trying straight away after their 2nd or waited?

I just want to get back to trying again but am worried if i do! any advice woudl be amazing

rhi
x