ladders
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so just looking for some support and stories. We originally took dd to the dr as over xmas her droopy eyelid got really bad as she was tired. was referred to the hospital and while they are not concerned with the eyelid i was told yesterday that the eye has astigmatism 3.5 and she will need glasses to be worn continuously and unlikely to correct enough so will be permanent.
im absolutely gutted and can't stop crying, i know in the grand scheme of things its not bad but i just dont want this for her. im very short sighted and had glasses since 3 and contacts from 12, i hate hate hate my glasses and how i look and feel in them, i got teased as they were so thick, even now i have to pay loads to have lens thinned out and they still dont fit in a thick frame, they are also too bad for laser eye.
my dh isnt concerned he says if she needs them then she has them end of, im just gutted her beautiful face is going to be covered my glasses, i feel guilty that its probably my fault, my dh has perfect vision. i never thought there was anything wrong with her vision she sees tiny tthings far away but thats because her right eye is doing all the work.
also I'm worried how i get her to keep them on, how do i make her do something that i dont want to do myself, my dh wants me to wear my glasses more ( i never wear them always have contacts in) and i will for her but it brinhs back so many negative feelings and i struggle to make eye contact/ talk to people as i feel so concious in them.
sorry for the ramble ladies im just feeling awful and no one seems to understand why
im absolutely gutted and can't stop crying, i know in the grand scheme of things its not bad but i just dont want this for her. im very short sighted and had glasses since 3 and contacts from 12, i hate hate hate my glasses and how i look and feel in them, i got teased as they were so thick, even now i have to pay loads to have lens thinned out and they still dont fit in a thick frame, they are also too bad for laser eye.
my dh isnt concerned he says if she needs them then she has them end of, im just gutted her beautiful face is going to be covered my glasses, i feel guilty that its probably my fault, my dh has perfect vision. i never thought there was anything wrong with her vision she sees tiny tthings far away but thats because her right eye is doing all the work.
also I'm worried how i get her to keep them on, how do i make her do something that i dont want to do myself, my dh wants me to wear my glasses more ( i never wear them always have contacts in) and i will for her but it brinhs back so many negative feelings and i struggle to make eye contact/ talk to people as i feel so concious in them.
sorry for the ramble ladies im just feeling awful and no one seems to understand why