4 C's Yummy Mummy Thread!

[Nixilix]

It's just a bit scary. We said new year so we will see

 

[molly85]

we got lucky we all know that doesn't always happpen

 

[Wantabean]

i want news di!!!!!!!!!
rachel if u want my honest honest honest opinion i wouldnt have gotten pregnant when i did. its been far too hard and i feel like such a bad mummy for struggling to look after and play with cameron. its heartbreaking. i was so so tired and sick in the first few months and cam was only 6months or something so it was real hard. and now im having a lot of problems and im not ment to pick cam up, push the pram or take pram up the stairs etc. i had to call my mil yesterday to get her to take cam out for a few hours as my hips and back were in agony and i was having contractions. i felt so so bad im having a hard time at moment so might just be biased lol just trying to be honest. i dont know what it will be like wen adam arrives though.

well girls today has been the most stressful day of my pregnancy
i went in for my weekly monitoring and i felt great. was really really happy, chatting away to midwifes quite happy. i started to wonder why i was on monitor for so long but though they were prob just busy. midwife came back and gave me some lucazade. i was a bit confused coz adam was kicking loads but drank it anyway. ten mins later mw came back with some wine gums so i had a few of them too. they started to panic so in turn i started to panic. they explained to me that he was having to mny decelerations and not any accelerations at all thats exactly what happened wih cam. his heartrate then started dipping and alarms started sounding. by this point i text my mum and she got ready to come through to hosp. they said to me that i was to go for emergency scan and then come back. i asked what was happening as i was getting really worried. they said if the trace didnt improve i was getting admitted and would be getting the injection to mature his lungs and i wouldnt be leaving hosp still pregnant. started completely freaking out so txt jo and stressed her out lol i had scan and everything looked ok so they sent me for lunch and a lil walk about. came back 40mins later and went back on monitor for another hour and a half!! bloody long time i tell u lol at one point i had 6 midwifes standing round staring at trace and i could see the worry on everyones face. my mum arrived shortly followed by garry (he had called his mum to get cam and came through) they told me it still wasnt looking good at all. they called for a doctor and it just happened to be my really crappy consultant he said he wasnt to worried and quite happy for me to go home. all the midwifes were staring at him in disbelief so was i. he said i have to come in on tuesday for a scan and more monitoring and take it from there. i could bloody choke him!!! he was my onsultant with cameron too andtold me everything was fine just days before he was born. he was quite clearly ill!! i am so so so stressed and i hate my consultant. i wish it had been someone else on as i would have felt more comfortable. i am absoultely shitting myself that him wanting to wait longer is gonna prove bad for adam seriously seriously stressed out i dont know what to do ladies. amy advice? xxxx

 

[molly85]

If he's moving thats good hun and you didn't stress me out I was trying to divert your attention lol.

I would ask to be seen by someone else having no faith in your doctor does not help you or Adam. Give them a call in the morning and ask for someone else to look at your notes asap

 

[mommaof3]

Di omg you have had your scan and not posted the babies gender wth woman we need to know lol

Kirstie honey im with Jo go ask to be looked at by someone else if nothing more then to ease your mind the stress of being unsure cant be good either if your worried or have any doubts then get to A&E and have them give you a look better to be safe


Rach to be honest its hard work haveing two no matter the age Ashely and Dillon were just 22 days from being exactly 3 years apart and Jesse and Mason just about a month from being 3 years apart so im not sure if its easier haveing them closer together. I know its better that Jesse can entertain himself some and doesnt need constant wathching but then on the other hand they are just far enough apart that they really cant play Mason is still to little to play what jesse wants to do and they just seem to fight over every little thing but then you have Jesse running round yelling and boucning off the walls at nap time but then he can walk and get himself in his carseat on his own I think no matter the age range there are all sorts of challenges when you have 2 unless they are years apart reserch says to have them around 3 years apart so the little ones get the attention they need but to be honest again its hard to give 2 kids each the attention they want becuase it never fails they both want or need you at the same time so I think its really just up to you and when you feel your ready for another one look at some of the moms that have 2 or 3 or heck even 5 at one time and they manage to make it work and still keep some sanity lol so unless you just want to have one baby its gonna be a challenge any way or any age gap

 

[Nixilix]

So true. Thanks. Hope everyone ok. Will catch up proper soon but away this weekend and packing.

Hope all well kirstie xx

 

[dreamqueen]

aww kirstie, hope all is well, what an awful experience! Listen to mamma nic and go get 2nd opinion!
Nicole, i would leave u all in suspense like that! Blame it on the baby who likes to sit like a bhudda in my belly haha. Little monkey was not very co operative and at first they said ooh boy and im sure i saw the boy bits too but when they tried to look again they said it looks like a girl! So im definately having either a boy or a girl! Going back 21st for a rescan!
Hope your well Nicole.

 

[dreamqueen]

hello jo... I see u

 

[molly85]

i'm always signed in lol.

Rach this is why we didn't think jst went for it. I can feel my now feel my uterus scary stuff

 

[mommaof3]

lmao Di's bhudda baby ive had four kids and could never tell a thing by the scan just went with what i was told lol so hopefully little bhudda moves around a bit on the next scan eat something with a lot of sugar right befor get him moveing around

 

[molly85]

COke or lucozade shpuld get them wriggling

Mmm half a fruit cake

 

[mommaof3]

Ok Di rescan tomorrow I expect that baby to spread em and show its bits Im saying GIRL im always wrong but hey got a 50/50 shot here lol

So is anyone but Shan ready for Christmas? I have nothing wrapped its all stashed in my car or the barn as a matter of fact its so scattered about trying to hide it ill probably never find it all Ricky has done the hiding and cant remember where he puts anything he can lose a set of keys in a matter of seconds and my poor poor tree it will be a Christmas miracle if the thing is still standing to put presents under and while Im complaining im gonna bitch about the weather I dislike snow but 60 degree temps and rain are just not right in December Id like one big snow then it can all go away so I can plant my seeds and gets my flower beds ready my kids need to be outside and I need to play in the dirt it relieves my STRESS and burns up all that kid energy that my two little men have an overabundance of Ive already had a baby oil and popcorn incident god only knows what the next 3 months of winter will have my little men messing in and me haveing to clean up ok rambling done

Jo keep COOKIN the badger
Shan get that baby OUT!!!!!
Di we NEED GENDER info ASAP
Kirstie not much longer now EXCITING
Rach any TTC decision been made
to anyone I missed hugs to all and miss you ladies

 

[molly85]

Early scan booked for next thursday! its 3d so should be freaky

Abby has just filled my trainer with water and is now plying with it little shit she must be in cahoots with your 2 nicole

 

[dreamqueen]

Hello ladies......well I am having...........
............a GIRL!!

 

[Nixilix]

Fab news!!!! Whoop!!! Congrats xxx

 

[mommaof3]

OMG how did I miss this woooo hooooo I got one right lol so happy for you Di do you have any names yet

 

[mommaof3]

SHAN IS IN LABOR!!!!!! she just sent me a text and her water broke around 8:30am so today or early tomorrow we should know what her little one is to im saying boy I will post updates here if she is able to send any

 

[molly85]

Nic FB me

Yay for Labour

 

[Loren]

hi ladies!!!!rite im going to try and be reguar on here nw!!!!!me n OH have been in tlks about TTC number 2 not too sure yet, but ive sat here 4 the past 3 hrs watching one born every minute and i cant actualy wait to have another now haha so tym will tell!!!hope u r all ok and 4 shan any news?i c nicole is on hey hun u ok?xxxx

 

[PeaceLoveBaby]

Popping in during my 2 am feeding time to say hellooooo and I miss all of you so much xx

I'll never catch up in reading, but I did see that Di's having a girl!!! Congrats They're so much fun

Needless to say, my life has been hectic, so I'm crap at keeping up on here.

Big hugs to everyone.

And huge congrats to Shan and her beautiful baby boy! Finallyyyyyy lol