4 days late! Stuck in limbo! Need Advice!

[AmandaFelton]

So af is 4 days late, I'm normally pretty regular. I've took two tests, a digital(3 days before af due) and regular(2 days ago), and both were bfn.

I'm super bloated and gassy, I'm having dull pain, not like af cramps, and occasional sharp pains. About once a day for the past 7 days I've had a dizzy spell with hot flashes.

Now I still have dull pain, and feel a little constipated, and I keep thinking I've started af only to find white milky discharge.

What should I do?

 

[AmandaFelton]

Not sure why this posted twice, and I don't know how to delete one.

 

[ab75]

I got my bfp with dd2 when af was a week late.

 

[Lazydaisys]

I'm 2 days late now and bfns.... The waiting is horrible:-/ x

 

[AmandaFelton]

Took two more tests this morning, BFN. Now just waiting for af.

 

[Katiehansen12]

I hate waiting good luck to you!

 

[BabyCleo]

Join the club. Last mc i had it took 6 days late for me to get a line. Now im 2 days late and nothing. Not a smidge. We can maybe wait it out together!

 

[Lazydaisys]

I'm still waiting. I'm usually regular. I have tested everyday and bfn. Think I'm day 31 of a normally day 28 cycle. I usually spot. I have been having pre AF cramping for a week. Constipation today which I usually have pre AF. This is hellish! I feel so sorry for people with irregular afs who ttc. I am so hopeful yet also so realistic:-/ hope we get some bfp success on this thread. My plan is to test everyday until AF hits. X

 

[BabyCleo]

Im now 3 days late an nada. I dont wanna test cause i dont wanna see a bfn again. UGH.

 

[AmandaFelton]

Still no sign of af, no spotting or cramping. No sore bbs. It's like all symptoms have kinda stopped cervix is very low. I'm not too sure what that means though. I haven't tested again. I'm not ready for another bfn.

I'm an emotional wreck, I cry over this every day. DH wants me to go get bloods.

 

[BabyCleo]

I never trust the cervix stuff, you always get different stories every time. When I had my m/c i was 6 days late before anything showed up, same day i went to the doc and he told me he couldnt see anything on my pee test!!! I was pregnant of course, so i know its just different for some people. Im wanting to go get more tests though... but i like you dont wanna see a bfn again..

 

[AmandaFelton]

I'm having a hard time getting an appointment with an obgyn. I'm new to the area and the waiting list is pretty long. Wall greens had a minute clinic that does pregnancy tests, but not sure if they test urine or blood. Ugh

 

[BabyCleo]

Haha you just commented on my thread too!!!

I dunno what we should do lol. I need to pee yet again maybe ill just run to the dollar store. Are you sure your getting stark white bfns? I heard some women have better luck with the second pee of the day.

 

[AmandaFelton]

Yeah stark white, and a no on digital

 

[Lazydaisys]

This is a nightmare. I ways wanted a missing AF - we all just need an accompanying bfp now! Keep us posted x

I'm going to go for bloods If I get to 7 days Kate. I hate going to my dr so I'm not in a major rush.


Good luck to everybody!

 

[AmandaFelton]

How much more sensitive is blood work compared to hpt?

 

[Lazydaisys]

Loads more sensitive they can tell you an exact figure. Yes or no and a level. Xx

 

[AmandaFelton]

Just got another bfn I'm like 6 days late, pretty sure I'm just broken. It's it sad that now I'm just hoping for af to get here. I have a doctors appointment on march 11th. I guess I'll know what wrong then. :'(

 

[Lazydaisys]

Amanda I am thinking the same about me being broken. We are missing our ads surely we should get our bfps!! I worried that maybe I didn't ovulate. I'm also stressing as the clinic are waiting for me to telephone then when I get af so they can book and organise fertility treatment (iui) for my next cycle. If my af isn't here by Tuesday I will ring them. My af feels like its coming but then I've been saying that for a week! Good luck to you xx

 

[Jannah K]

Girls!
I am on CD 43 today...8 days late....feel like AF coming but it doesn't...neg tests as well...TTC#1 5th month
My sis asked me to go get blood test next week...so I am thinking about it...
I cry everyday too