4 Weeks since miscarriage still no period, unsure what to do??

[Bumblebee2408]

Hi Girls,

I know most people will say your Dr says wait 4-6 weeks for you period to show up but its been 4 weeks since now and I lost baby fairly early on (5 weeks) so my Dr said with it been so early it should carry on as normal.

So I don't know if I should test again or wait another 2 weeks and see the wait is killing me and we've been trying this month not to replace our last baby but because we loved been pregnant even for that sort time and couldn't wait to feel that happy again.

What do people think and does any one have any advice for me? let me know

Thank you all

Babydust to you all dust:

 

[auntylolo]

It is possible to get pregnant before you have your first af after mc. Did you keep testing until you got a -ve? If so I would definitely test, good luck!

 

[Bumblebee2408]

It is possible to get pregnant before you have your first af after mc. Did you keep testing until you got a -ve? If so I would definitely test, good luck!

Yes we tested once bleeding stopped after 4 days and got a negative went to hospital had it confirmed and now am unsure I'm just 2 days shy of 4 weeks since it all happened but I'm having no period symptoms and usually week I'm due I get bad cramps which I've had none and I'm very impatient

But also don't want the let down if all is bad news

Arrrrgggh stuck in limbo here lol
xxxxx

 

[Jaxvipe]

After my early mc in Aug my next cycle i didn't ovulate until cd26 so your body needs alittle time to get back to normal.

 

[Bumblebee2408]

Thanks for the advice darling
xxxxx

 

[beautifuloaks]

It took my 6 weeks to get my period back

 

[Tarabay]

has it been 4 weeks since u stopped bleeding and got ur negative or 4 weeks since it all started??

i wouldnt be sure wen u start counting from, the start of a miscarriage or the end! i wouls have thot the end but then i have read stories about some woman who have ovulated before they stopped bleeding during their m/c!

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[Millnsy]

I have had 2 miscarriages this year. The first after 7 weeks and my period took about 5-6 weeks to come. The second was at just 5 weeks and my period came after 5 weeks so I would say it'll probably be a few more days but everyone's different. Hope that helps.

 

[filipenko32]

Hi, I ovulated 5 days after the 1st negative pregnancy test (bleeding had stopped by then) and I got my 1st af 5 weeks after the d&c

 

[Bumblebee2408]

Thank you everyone for all the advice I will give it another week or so as most people have said it was roughly 5 weeks after the miscarriage happened that they got there period

Thanks Again everyone you've been great help xxxx

 

[babybeegurl]

I am now 7 weeks and 4 days since my miscarraige and still no period yet. Not even any signs of it coming. I went to the doctors on friday and she was not remotely concerned at all by this and told me they wouldnt even think of doing anything to help me get my period until the 1st week of the new year. Thats another 5 weeks!!! I am so upset by this as i am desperate to try again and cant try until my body starts again. Gutted is not the word xx

 

[Girl20]

Hi Girls,

I know most people will say your Dr says wait 4-6 weeks for you period to show up but its been 4 weeks since now and I lost baby fairly early on (5 weeks) so my Dr said with it been so early it should carry on as normal.

So I don't know if I should test again or wait another 2 weeks and see the wait is killing me and we've been trying this month not to replace our last baby but because we loved been pregnant even for that sort time and couldn't wait to feel that happy again.

What do people think and does any one have any advice for me? let me know

Thank you all

Babydust to you all dust:

Hi my Girl

Firstly I just want to give you a huge HUGE , I am so sorry for your loss.
I myself had a miscairage at 6 weeks, this was all so confusing to me.. Im young (20/21) healthy, and tried to do everything "right" since I found out I was expecting but in the end I still lost my baby... This was really the last thing I thought would happen, the irony is you never think it would happen to you - I mean these things always happen to other people right.. WRONG!

I also paniced a bit when my period didnt show up after a month... First I didnt want it showing up and now I actually prayed for it to come - The must think Im one screwed up chick, make up your mind lady ha ha ..

Well I miscairied on the 7th of September 2011 and my 1st period showed up on the 15th of October 2011 so it's about 6 weeks or so. I geuss there is no telling when the gonna show, our bodies are all different when it comes to healing ect.

I know being patient is problably the last thing on your mind... But patiens is key. - ha ha I keep having to remind myself of that!!

Hope you are doing okay sweetheart, I am here if you need a friend!

 

[sweetangel]

Hi Bumble bee,

I had a mc on the 21st sept we dont know how far along i was but it was somewhere between 5 & half and 7 & half weeks.

I then got my BFP on the 24th oct 12dpo as i normally have a 35 day cycle and had been temping and using ovulation sticks, so I was very lucky to fall pregnant straight after the mc with no natural period inbetween so i have my fingers crossed the same as happened to you

Apparently they say you are more fertile for a few months follwing a mc and that your body is more prepared for a baby, I dont know how true that is but seems right for me.

Good Luck Hun let us know how you get on.

Sweet x

 

[Bumblebee2408]

Hey Firstly to Girl 20!!

I'm the same age I'm 21 did the same as you I've been eating healthily loosing a little bit of weight while I could in the last year i've lost almost a stone so i'd be healthier and i took my folic acid followed every rule under the book and just the same as you thought it happens to other people not me, but now I just wan2 get back to normal now

Keep in touch Girl be nice to have a friend may age to chat to about this all maybe we could be TTC buddies??

Let me know how you're getting on and thank you for your kind words its nice to know someone has felt the same and can give such close too advice


sweetangel thank you so much for the advice and I will keep in touch via this link and let you know how I get on its good to know there are some nice stories out there about conceiving straight from a miscarriage it makes a happy moment of a sad one
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[keepthefaithx]

i got mine 41 days after my first loss and i just had a chemical pregnancy-

some ppl dont get it until like 8 weeks after, hopefully thats not you.

wish u the best

 

[Bumblebee2408]

thank you very much keepthefaith
Fingers crossed it isn't me I don't want to have to wait that long
xxxxx

 

[Girl20]

Hey Firstly to Girl 20!!

I'm the same age I'm 21 did the same as you I've been eating healthily loosing a little bit of weight while I could in the last year i've lost almost a stone so i'd be healthier and i took my folic acid followed every rule under the book and just the same as you thought it happens to other people not me, but now I just wan2 get back to normal now

Keep in touch Girl be nice to have a friend may age to chat to about this all maybe we could be TTC buddies??

Let me know how you're getting on and thank you for your kind words its nice to know someone has felt the same and can give such close too advice


sweetangel thank you so much for the advice and I will keep in touch via this link and let you know how I get on its good to know there are some nice stories out there about conceiving straight from a miscarriage it makes a happy moment of a sad one
xxxxxxxxxxxxx
xxxxx

Ofcourse we can be ttc buddies, always nice making new friends!
Where are you from? Im from South Africa - such a lovely place.
Well today is my Cycle day 15... and im keeping positive!. It's so easy to get yourself down because of what has happened

 

[Tarabay]

Hi Bumble bee,

I had a mc on the 21st sept we dont know how far along i was but it was somewhere between 5 & half and 7 & half weeks.

I then got my BFP on the 24th oct 12dpo as i normally have a 35 day cycle and had been temping and using ovulation sticks, so I was very lucky to fall pregnant straight after the mc with no natural period inbetween so i have my fingers crossed the same as happened to you

Apparently they say you are more fertile for a few months follwing a mc and that your body is more prepared for a baby, I dont know how true that is but seems right for me.

Good Luck Hun let us know how you get on.

Sweet x

Hi sweetangel!
You said you had your miscarriage on the 21st sept, was that the day you started bleeding? did u have a D and C?? I am just curious as its nearly been 5 weeks since the first day i started bleeding and im nearly sure that i may possibly be gettin some pregnancy symptoms but very scared to do a hpt! what made you do a test?

I am not sure whether to go from the day i had the pain which is over 5 weeks ago or the day i started bleeding or the day i stopped bleeding!?!

was you BFP strong or faint??

hope your keepin well with this pregnancy so far!

Thanks for any help!!

 

[sweetangel]

Hi tarabay,
The 21st sept was the day I started bleeding. I didn't have a d&c I treated the first day I started bleeding as though it was the first day of my period and working from that with my 35day cycle my next period was due the 26th oct I really wasn't sure how it worked I guess I was just lucky that things can go bk to normal. My BFP on the 24th was a very very faint line almost non existent I had my hcg checked later that day and it was 18 ( I was monitored after the mc till it went bk to zero so we new it was a new pregnancy) I than had it rechecked on the 27th and it had gone up to 90 then the 1st oct was 1345. Hope this helps a bit hun, let us know if you test and the outcome

To all you ladies waiting for your cycle to go back to normal don't stress it will happen I think your body knows when it's ready I know how frustrating irregular cycles can be has I have pcos and only the last 12 mths as mine been regular after losing weight it slowly got better and better then just settled at 35days

Sweet xx

 

[Tarabay]

Thanks for your reply sweetangel!
you have given me hope now! my cycles are usualyy around the 28day mark so if i treat the first day of my miscarriage as the first day of a normal period it would mean im 5 days late!

???????????????????????????????????????? to test or not!!!

were u havin pregnancy niggles?? y did u decide to test??