43 soon & 3 chems / 1 mmc - hope needed -any rainbow baby stories?

[Sunshine14]

Hey mom that is great if you r getting ready to O but awful news about DH! What is that all about? Did he give u a reason why he doesn't want to ttc? Is it something that u think u can resolve before O time!? Eeek - maybe he just needs a bit more attention and tlc or something - I would try and find out reason ad gently work on him -- hope u manage to get him back on track hun x good luck xx

Oasis sorry to hear u were feeling a bit down hun hope u r feeling better now - new cycle new chance hey! stay positive & get ready for ur BDINg if u haven't started already - it will happen for u hun just a matter of time and luck xx

I feel a bit stuck in limbo still having twinges on right ovary but no idea if I O'd or what cd30 today -- time will tell I suppose .........

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks sunshine, have you temped I can't remember ive got a terrible memory lol, at least then you would know if you had o or not xxxx

 

[Sunshine14]

Thanks sunshine, have you temped I can't remember ive got a terrible memory lol, at least then you would know if you had o or not xxxx

No I don't temp hun I always wake up during the night and so would be crap with trying to take temperature when I first wake up! After each of my CP's before I don't think I O'd so am just expecting not too this month again and just waiting for af really to get back on track - cd30 today and I suppose af will show up at some point! How r u feeling today r u happier??

 

[momof5wants1]

The reason he's doing this is he's scared. The bleeding scared him during the m/c. What he doesn't understand is I could do that with a regular cycle that wasn't a pregnancy loss. He conveniently forgets that little issue I have on occasion. I was always a really heave bleeder until I got on the pill and even having my kids didn't change that. I've had to go to the ER twice in the past over it. He was telling me he didn't want me to die. I replied that I didn't either and that I don't want to go through what his step mother is with his father due to heart disease and diabetes. His mother had heart disease too and died while on the table during her 7th angioplasty. He's 85 lbs over weight and won't get up and move except at work. I would much rather not have to go through all the crap of diabetes, angiograms, angioplasty, open heart surgery, etc, just because he wants to sit on his rump. He didn't like hearing that one, especially when I reminded him of all the children who love him. We all will die at some time. Why can't we at least have the illusion of being a happy person while we live?? You know what I mean???

 

[Oasis717]

Totally understand mom, hoping its just a small blip and he's back on board with you soon xxxxxxx
Sunshine I'm feeling blasé today lol, if it happens it happens this month if it doesn't it will! Xxxx

 

[Sunshine14]

Hey ladies : ) mom sorry to hear your DH is being an idiot - fingers xd you will be able to sort him out soon xx oasis how are you doing hun? What cd are you on now? Are you getting ready for O?

Afm cd34 today after mc - I think (really not sure) I might have O'd around cd24ish. Have had twinges in my right ovary that started last week and they still haven't gone away and today my boobs are sore --not sure what to think probably just strong pms sypmtoms!! Did you have similiar following your mc ladies?

 

[momof5wants1]

I didn't have that, but I don't get many symptoms of ovulation. CD 11 here and starting to get darker lines on the opk's. Got early this morning and I'm hoping to get it a few more times in the next week. CM is alternating between wet and creamy with a bit of stretch and CP is getting higher and starting to open up, so fx I catch it this time.

 

[Oasis717]

Hey ladies CD 8 today, started bd but still forgetting to get opks! Xxxx

 

[Sunshine14]

Hey mom glad u r getting to dtd x Oasis hope ur doing well and got soem OPKs' xx afm - cd1 today yipee back on track!! Glad to get the witch for once xx

 

[Oasis717]

That's great sunshine! Xxxx got my opks today and from past experience I'd say I'm 3/4 days off o going by the line xxxxx

 

[momof5wants1]

Had bright dark lines on opk's yesterday all day and part of today. Lines started to fade this afternoon. Got some more this morning and hoping to get some tomorrow too. FX on us all catching the egg this cycle.

 

[Oasis717]

Mine are still a bit away I think but bd still in case that's great mom be wonderful for us all to catch our eggs this cycle! Xxx

 

[momof5wants1]

Temp shot up this morning so now I am officially PUPO

 

[Oasis717]

That's brilliant! I wish my o would hurry up I hate waiting lol xxxx

 

[Sunshine14]

Hey ladies : ) sounds like u have had a good shot at it this month mom even though ur DH seemed to get cold feet. Oasis what CD are u on hun? Is O due anytime now??

I think I'm back to CD1 today - sorry for TMI but since FRiday had 2 days of random old blood spotting and only seems to be getting bit pinker today but still seems quite light so I'm going to count today as cd1 -- all v odd after mc - did u ladies have anything similiar first af after mc? It's probably just my body getting back on track right?? Anyway happy sunday to u both & lots of babydust sprinkled ur way xxxx

 

[momof5wants1]

Only odd thing was the 3 days of random spotting after the regular flow left. Other than that, nothing odd I can think of. Keep us posted hun. I know if it wasn't a complete m/c then you will have oddball bleeding. Have you had an exam done to make sure your uterus is all clear?? Wouldn't want to get an infection hun.

 

[Oasis717]

I went right back to normal after my d and c but the natural mc was a lot different, bled longer and had pos tests for weeks and weeks due to tiny piece of retained tissue, wasn't bad enough for surgery so they left me to it! This cycle the day before AF I had brown cm as usual but the day before pink cm, I've never had that! AF started light but was heavy as always for two days. I'm CD 11 and opk getting darker, hurry up o lol! Xxxx

 

[Sunshine14]

Ah thanks ladies I feel better reading ur posts Mom I had a scan about 2 weeks after I took tablets to get mc started and they gave me the all clear so at least I know everything is gone xx Oasis I did a test Friday just to see what was going on and came back negative -- makes me feel a bit better that u had some coloured cm as well -- sorry for TMI but I'm going to view it as my body just clearing out stuff - have proper normal bright red bleeding now and some af cramps so hopefully this is just me getting back on track and I am over analysing too much!! Thanks again ladies for helping me put it into perspective xx to you both xxx

 

[Oasis717]

That's OK luv and nothing is tmi! I've honestly never had pink cm, especially two days before AF, silly me got my hopes up! It was just one lot on the tissue when I wiped then nothing, odd, its daft cause I get v specific pregnancy symptoms and I always know im pregnant yet the months i dont get them I'm still bloody hoping lol, hope keeps going til I see red despite the fact each time I've been pregnant I don't get any kind of pink/brown/red cm at all, desperation and clutching at straws springs to mind lol xxxx

 

[momof5wants1]

got my ch today!!!