My OH is a policeman, he only does days and lates now so much better than when he did nights too. Although it's rare for him to be home on time when he is doing lates or any shift for that matter. Have given up planning anything for a day he works as its so frustrating when he's hours late or misses the whole thing, and I am sure the worry has led to all this extra grey hair I have....
How do you all find being a coppers wife/gf? I must admit I struggle sometimes as its impossible for him to switch off.