9dpo - breasts not sore anymore (unusual)

[JazzyFresh]

13DPO and BFN again.............. I am trying to keep my head up. Googled and I guess statistically only 25% of women get a BFP before their period via POAS and 40% the day of their missed period.

Yeah that's why I'm trying to wait it out. Getting BFN's is hard When is AF due for you?

It's due on Friday. Just crazy with all my weird twinges and pulls in my lower abdomen. Last night it lasted like an hour and I just tossed and turned without getting comfy. My DH is like we need to talk to the RE if you aren't pregnant because this doesn't seem right. My beta is tomorrow and I just can't wait to know for sure if I am golden or out this cycle.

 

[traceyAndLee]

Good news well bad lol af just got me now full on red cramps aswell. May have a beer this week lol best of luck girls xxx

 

[JazzyFresh]

Good news well bad lol af just got me now full on red cramps aswell. May have a beer this week lol best of luck girls xxx

Awww... bummers! Enjoy your beer, girl!!!! lol.

 

[redlemonade]

Jazzyfresh I hope it's a bfp for you!

Sorry AF got you Tracey - good luck next time and enjoy your beer!

As for me, still no AF and got very weak and nauseous after lunch today. I'm so scared to test though

 

[LoveSunshine]

Jazzyfresh I hope it's a bfp for you!

Sorry AF got you Tracey - good luck next time and enjoy your beer!

As for me, still no AF and got very weak and nauseous after lunch today. I'm so scared to test though

See what your temp does in the morning, if it goes up or is similar then I'd say Good luck hun xx

 

[LoveSunshine]

Good news well bad lol af just got me now full on red cramps aswell. May have a beer this week lol best of luck girls xxx

Sorry to hear that Tracey onto next month, enjoy your beer!

 

[redlemonade]

Jazzyfresh I hope it's a bfp for you!

Sorry AF got you Tracey - good luck next time and enjoy your beer!

As for me, still no AF and got very weak and nauseous after lunch today. I'm so scared to test though

See what your temp does in the morning, if it goes up or is similar then I'd say Good luck hun xx

Thanks LoveSunshine! I'm not sure if these symptoms are real or just psychosomatic. I'm so scared to test because if it's negative, and I'm expecting it will be, then I'll be wondering what the heck is wrong with me!

 

[JazzyFresh]

Jazzyfresh I hope it's a bfp for you!

Sorry AF got you Tracey - good luck next time and enjoy your beer!

As for me, still no AF and got very weak and nauseous after lunch today. I'm so scared to test though

See what your temp does in the morning, if it goes up or is similar then I'd say Good luck hun xx

Thanks LoveSunshine! I'm not sure if these symptoms are real or just psychosomatic. I'm so scared to test because if it's negative, and I'm expecting it will be, then I'll be wondering what the heck is wrong with me!

Where are you at in your cycle... when is AF due I should rather say? I get you on the whole psychosomatic possibility. As it is, my DH is looking at me skeptical every time I open my mouth to say I have a twinge or I feel queasy. It frustrates me. At the same time, I will feel kinda stupid if I really am not pregnant.

 

[redlemonade]

That's the thing, I'm going to feel VERY stupid if I'm not pregnant this cycle, lol! AF was due a couple of days ago!

 

[JazzyFresh]

That's the thing, I'm going to feel VERY stupid if I'm not pregnant this cycle, lol! AF was due a couple of days ago!

Let me get this straight, you are late AND experiencing symptoms and you have NOT tested? lol.... what is the hold up! Go buy a test girl!!!

 

[redlemonade]

That's the thing, I'm going to feel VERY stupid if I'm not pregnant this cycle, lol! AF was due a couple of days ago!

Let me get this straight, you are late AND experiencing symptoms and you have NOT tested? lol.... what is the hold up! Go buy a test girl!!!

LOL! I tested on the day AF was due and got a BFN I guess it could be because it wasn't FMU, I had just been out running and drank a LOT of water, but I just got really down seeing that it was negative. I know I'm being really silly!

I have POAS-aversion

 

[redlemonade]

Well I guess those symptoms were, indeed, psychosomatic. Or the beginnings of a kidney infection

I started spotting a bit this morning. I'm pretty down in the dumps because I was so sure this time. My body is so cruel to me. Perhaps I was delayed because of this infection coming on, I don't know. I've been so ill this month! You'd think with all the pre-natal vitamins I was taking I'd be in top shape!

I've actually decided to keep off bnb for a while. It confuses me and hurts me because my emotions are so up and down reading posts that are so conflicting and with all the symptom-spotting, and especially because everybody always says my chart looks great and my symptoms are great. My chart is always freaking "textbook" so why no baby? UGH! I know I'm so silly, we've been trying such a short time.

Anywho, I've put my thermometer away and I'm not charting anymore. We're still trying, of course, but we're going to cut out all the sciencey nonsense and just DTD!

I'm not sure if/when I'll be back but I do need a break from here. I just want to say a huge thanks to you girls for your support and encouragement and I really hope that you get your BFPs very very soon

 

[LoveSunshine]

Aw soo sorry Red Don't blame you for taking a break, it messes with your head so much! Wishing you lots of luck and happiness x

 

[redlemonade]

Thanks hun. Hopefully I can come back and show off the bump with my xmas baby

Onwards and upwards to the next cycle! *brushes myself off*

I really wish you all the best. You're all awesome women and will make lovely mums some day

 

[Zeri]

I'm sorry about the spotting. I was stalking your chart and hoping for good news. My breasts have not been sore either this cycle, so I was wondering what that meant. Hugs to you- hope you get that bfp soon!

 

[JazzyFresh]

Well I guess those symptoms were, indeed, psychosomatic. Or the beginnings of a kidney infection

I started spotting a bit this morning. I'm pretty down in the dumps because I was so sure this time. My body is so cruel to me. Perhaps I was delayed because of this infection coming on, I don't know. I've been so ill this month! You'd think with all the pre-natal vitamins I was taking I'd be in top shape!

I've actually decided to keep off bnb for a while. It confuses me and hurts me because my emotions are so up and down reading posts that are so conflicting and with all the symptom-spotting, and especially because everybody always says my chart looks great and my symptoms are great. My chart is always freaking "textbook" so why no baby? UGH! I know I'm so silly, we've been trying such a short time.

Anywho, I've put my thermometer away and I'm not charting anymore. We're still trying, of course, but we're going to cut out all the sciencey nonsense and just DTD!

I'm not sure if/when I'll be back but I do need a break from here. I just want to say a huge thanks to you girls for your support and encouragement and I really hope that you get your BFPs very very soon

Awwww.... I COMPLETELY understand Wishing you the best of luck and that you get your healthy sanity back

 

[traceyAndLee]

Well I guess those symptoms were, indeed, psychosomatic. Or the beginnings of a kidney infection

I started spotting a bit this morning. I'm pretty down in the dumps because I was so sure this time. My body is so cruel to me. Perhaps I was delayed because of this infection coming on, I don't know. I've been so ill this month! You'd think with all the pre-natal vitamins I was taking I'd be in top shape!

I've actually decided to keep off bnb for a while. It confuses me and hurts me because my emotions are so up and down reading posts that are so conflicting and with all the symptom-spotting, and especially because everybody always says my chart looks great and my symptoms are great. My chart is always freaking "textbook" so why no baby? UGH! I know I'm so silly, we've been trying such a short time.

Anywho, I've put my thermometer away and I'm not charting anymore. We're still trying, of course, but we're going to cut out all the sciencey nonsense and just DTD!

I'm not sure if/when I'll be back but I do need a break from here. I just want to say a huge thanks to you girls for your support and encouragement and I really hope that you get your BFPs very very soon

so sorry hun best of luck for nextime baby - i feel like doing the same puting all away and just do it -