Well it's clear that my story is relevant so...
My eldest was born by C-section due to transverse breech. It was scary as hell just because I was by myself but the team were great and we were both fine.
With my youngest I was determined to give birth via VBAC but after 30 hours I was only 6cm so they tried to attach an internal monitor to Charlies head and also get a blood gasses reading from him. They tried SEVEN TIMES
It F'king hurt but they still couldn't get it. An hour later I was still 6cms so they decided to do a section. There weren't enough staff so the midwife and student were enlisted into theatre.
During the operation the surgeon nicked the bladder and had to put a couple of stitches in it. I lost a sh*t load of blood, coming very close to needing a transfusion. I was canulated in seven seperate sites (3left 2right) and the first thing that happened when she held him up for me to see was that he sh*t meconium all over me!
And don't dare talk to me about tummytucks, I'm going to get one this time because when they closed me up they left about a 2inch leway over the top of what I call my hem line; the op scar, which I have permanantly sagging over and the more weight I lost the bigger the 'overhang' (man I hate that word now) got. I have looked 5 months pregnant for TWO YEARS!
Now; believe it or not I'm not saying this to scare you or have you feel sorry for me, because the fact is that Charlie had corkscrewed himself up in his umbilical cord and could not physically get out. He was in terrible distress and his blood gasses were close to saturation; if we had not decided to act when we did then there is a very real chance that we could have lost him. Believe me, if you find yourself in that situation you wont even care if you live or die so long as your baby is safe.
Horror stories like that can scare the sh*t out of you but between that and the life of your baby, obviously, there is no comparison. Don't wreck yourselves over it ladies because it wont make a blind bit of difference if the sh*t hits the fan, believe.