2have4kids
Mother of 3
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A good friend of mine (previous moh)has gone off her rocker with being scared of toxins this, carcinogens that. Recently on pinterest I've caught her repinning the same pins as me saying mean things like 'anyone who's ever been a mom knows'...you fill in the blank here opposite of what I've said. If i like the idea of cloth diapers(any mom knows cloth takes too much effort for what they're worth), a pin i have of a rubber duckie for the bath (full of phthalates of course and will cause your children to be infertile...doncha know!) Well, the comment about anyone who's ever been a parent knows... for me was the last drop in the bucket that broke the camels back (is that the saying?). I don't need to be reminded that I don't have children yet and we're about the very last of all our friends to be able to conceive a family, due to a genetic issue that's caused me infertility, never mind be constantly reminded of all of her insanity and fears of dying from one thing or another. The infertility thing was a low blow and something I just don't need so called friends throwing in my face in order to prove silly points.
I went to visit her new baby recently and she's got rid of her ceramic dishes for clear glass citing that ceramics all have lead in the glaze (untrue and oh let me go home and dye from lead poisoning from my lead-laden ceramic plates). She doesn't use a microwave-changes the molecular structure of your food, no canned food-we'll get poisoned from the cans, no one can buy gifts for her kids as they're all unsafe. Apparently i should go to this california company to get a baby mattress so that it doesn't off gas onto my baby as regular mattresses do. The DH said we can just get a used one that's already done off gassing (suits me fine!)
It's too much for me and it's constant and all-consuming, so since the visit I've tried to keep her at an arms length. It's not working because I'm still seeing the craziness on pinterest. I've stopped following her today but I just think maybe I should do the same on facebook too? I can't speak to her about this sort of thing. There's no reasoning with her, i told her last time that I'm not interested in all of the fear-mongering emails and talk (the subject was on how stevia is toxic, mimics hormones, and causes hypoglycaemia -all ridiculous assertions from the mommyblog of a dietician's opinion, not a single science-based fact). I've let her get under my skin for too long and don't feel like i have anything in common with her anymore. What would you do?
I went to visit her new baby recently and she's got rid of her ceramic dishes for clear glass citing that ceramics all have lead in the glaze (untrue and oh let me go home and dye from lead poisoning from my lead-laden ceramic plates). She doesn't use a microwave-changes the molecular structure of your food, no canned food-we'll get poisoned from the cans, no one can buy gifts for her kids as they're all unsafe. Apparently i should go to this california company to get a baby mattress so that it doesn't off gas onto my baby as regular mattresses do. The DH said we can just get a used one that's already done off gassing (suits me fine!)
It's too much for me and it's constant and all-consuming, so since the visit I've tried to keep her at an arms length. It's not working because I'm still seeing the craziness on pinterest. I've stopped following her today but I just think maybe I should do the same on facebook too? I can't speak to her about this sort of thing. There's no reasoning with her, i told her last time that I'm not interested in all of the fear-mongering emails and talk (the subject was on how stevia is toxic, mimics hormones, and causes hypoglycaemia -all ridiculous assertions from the mommyblog of a dietician's opinion, not a single science-based fact). I've let her get under my skin for too long and don't feel like i have anything in common with her anymore. What would you do?