A little help please, Bleeding?!!!

[Ashhh]

Hey everyone!
Wondered if some one could help me and give me a bit of advice please
I came off the pill nearly 4 weeks ago (I was on it for only a few months) and had unprotected sex with my partner sevral times the week before last,as we are trying for a baby, I havent had any bleeding/period yet!!Is this a good sign?Any chance I could be pregnant so soon?
Hope some one can help
Thankyou
Ash x

 

[moomin_troll]

When i came off the pill i had been on it for 3 years but my periods were all over the place and took 6 months for my periods to sort themselves out and then that month i became pregnant.

Although because you werent on the pill there could be a chance you never no. Do you have any idea when this period is due? Because that will help but you could always do a test even though if you are pregnant it could be too early for a test to pick up on

 

[nikky0907]

Well,I don't know.Pill can usually mess up your cycles a bit.

So 4 weeks ago you came off.Two weeks ago you had sex.Well,If you came off the pill just before your period was due than you had sex while ovulating so there is a chance that you're pregnant.But you know what,wait a little,see wether your period arrives then if it doesn't take a test.

 

[susiewusie]

with my first pregnancy i fell pregnant on the pill, so you never know

 

[nikky0907]

Hey honey,I just saw that you're 16.Now the last thing I want is to tell you how to live your life or anything.But can I just one more time ask you,are you SURE bout this? Trying for a baby now? I mean,you are so young,why don't you guys wait a couple of more years.See how you feel then about all this.You know one or two years make one hell of a difference in a persons life?

 

[r a i n _x]

i know for a fact that coming off the pill messed my cycle up to hell and back. even when i was on it i had a random three week bleed - so when i decided to come off it for my body's sake, i really had no clue when my actual period was meant to come. that in the end, never did, and i'm pregnant! it did however, take a long time for a positive to come through on hpt's.

sometimes it can take you a long time to get your cycles all right again, but i guess there's a possibility.
have you had any possible symptoms etc yet?
i suggest you take a test, and if it comes back negative but you still don't have your period in a few days - test again.
Maybe if it's still negative, take a visit to the doctor if you're worried.

 

[Ashhh]

Thankyou all for your replies! Nicky0907,Yeah i am pretty young, But me and my boyfriend have been together 2 years and decieded its what we both really want, I would still carry on with college untill I get my qualifications,and he would continue working,It wouldnt mean our lives ending,Just changing for the betterand it is really what we want.
Something strange just happend,Started bleeding Dunno if this is good or bad! Maybe(im hoping)it could be implant bleed? Or is this a deffinate sign that Im not pregnant?
ManyThanks xxx

 

[moomin_troll]

I think it may be your period love but just wait and see. It can either take along time to get pregnant or happen right away. I do agree with Nikky though about maybe waiting even though you have been together 2 years and you have spoke about which is great but it takes so much out of you being pregnant and at a young age your body might not be able to cope im only 4 years older than you but 4 years makes alot of difference. And i said i would carry on working till afew weeks before my due date and focus on getting my NVQ finished but oh my god its been so hard to do while pregnant i was very ill with my morning sickness and was signed off work and i couldnt focus on my nvq so it took longer and im so tired and going on maternity next week at 10 weeks.

My advice is if you want to carry on at college wait till youve finished before you start to try.

 

[Mynxie]

Yes! You could be!

The first time I was pregnant was the first cycle off the pill!