A month and a half a go and still very sad...

[Sugababy]

I lost my baby 1 and a half months a go (at 7/8 weeks), I didnt know I was pregnant until I was being told I miscarried and we certainly weren't trying, I know what Ive gone through is nothing compared to what some of you have been through and Im so sorry for everyone who has lost their babies.

I am still so sad about this, I think everyone just thinks I am back to my normal self now but I am so not, I find it really hard still and am really sad. I'm not sure how to put this behind me. It doesn't help I have just gone back on the pill for the first time since I miscarried so I think hormones are messed up yet again!

I know it will never go away and it will always be in my memories, but how do you move on from this?

Hugs to everyone.

xxxx

 

[LaDY]

Im sorry i can't offer much advice...just wanted to say i am thinking of you and im sorry for your loss xx

 

[DaisyDuke]

I'm so sorry u have been thro this i mc last week after a ttc for many many month with many tests and heartache. I wish i could offer u some advice but it's all to new and raw for me, the only thing that seems to be helping me in the slightest is ttc again, i'm seeing the fertility specialist again tomorrow and i pray he has some answers and solutions for me.

 

[Sugababy]

Thank you for the replies and hugs. I'm so sorry DaisyDuke that you have miscarried this week, big hugs to you and thinking of you. This forum is the best support and has helped me a lot. Having a miscarriage even through an accidental pregnancy made me realise I do really want a baby one day and has bought out a major maternal instinct in me but my boyfriend doesnt want a baby for another 2 years or so, so TTC is not an option for me, I can see exactly how it would take some of the pain away and help to 'move on' as it were, obviously all our angels will always be in our thoughts.

xxx

 

[Meli]

hi there, lot's of to you... I also mc at 8w and it was the most horrible experience of my life. Try to be patient and take care of yourself, don't ignore your feelings. At least we know that there is a good chance we will get pregnant again, and most women who have mc will go on to have normal, healthy babies (not that they will ever replace the ones we lost...). But many women go through this, you're not alone.