A rant on slow coach hospital

[Bunnipowder]

Im waiting til i have my hospital appoinment about Callum's post mortem, to find out exactly why he died (only thing im getting back from internet is cerebal palsy) before we start trying again they said it would be 6 weeks from when he died which it is just about now and im not completely impatient, but what is doing my head in is waiting for the letter with the apt date on EVERY day i am waiting for the post with nothing!! my midwife phoned them last week because i am desperate to know when it is and the secretery said they hadnt forgotten me (oh thanks alot!) and she will type up the letter that day and send it well that was a week ago yday and still nothing, i feel so angry, its like their putting my life on hold because i cannot rest until i have my questions answered and some one's got these answers there just taking there time in typing up a letter! fair enough they said 6 weeks but it has been 6 weeks and my midwife even phoned them to innocently hurry them along

I wouldn't risk trying to conceive again until I know all my facts first, and i feel that being pregnant again would help me to heal and i want to be pregnant again so bad, reminds me of happy times when i thought i had so much to look forward to.

 

[Flossie03]

hun, that must be so hard. I can completely understand your need to know the results, that is completely natural. I can't believe they are being so insensitive and taking so long, at a time like this you shouldn't have to be chasing these issues up. Could you ring the secretary directly? Just a thought but I know the waiting aroung must be so hard, hope you get some answers soon xx

 

[claralouise]

i would suggest you write to them put all your fealings down if you still havent heard anything nxt week phone them and tell them you are putting in an officail complaint.

im so sorry for your loss this must be making it worse

 

[Rumpskin]

I am so sorry you are being treated so insensitively. Hopefully you will get the results very soon. Big and love xxx

 

[ClaireyF]

I'm so sorry to read what you've been going through. i think that you should make the official complaint and it might speed things up. i wish you luck with trying to get the answers you need and hope that everything goes perfectly when you are ready to ttc again big hugs xxx

 

[Drazic<3]

I am so sorry to hear after everything you have already been through you now have this to contend with. I think you have been amazing waiting so long and they are really taking the p*ss now.
My advice would be just to not let up. Keep ringing and keep hassling them. Dont let them make you keep waiting.
Thinking of you

 

[honeybunch2k7]

I'm sorry for your loss and sorry about how you are being treated.

 

[SJK]

so so sorry xx

 

[Hevz]

....I hope you get some answers soon babe. I know it's hard to even think about moving on until you know what you're dealing with.

Lots of love