A short and sweet life

[Flossie03]

I'm so sorry for your loss, it sounds like you are being incredibly strong and I wish you all the very best when you start ttc again

 

[emie]

so sorry for your loss,you are lucky to have a supportive DH

 

[LaDY]

So sorry hun xxx

 

[Farie]

 

[Chris77]

I am so sorry for your loss.

 

[eclipse]

I'm so sorry for you! Your husband sounds like he was wonderful and very understanding, though, which has to be a major source of comfort for you. I think you are very brave. You are an inspiration. Make sure you take all the time you need. *hugs*

 

[krazykat]

Sash, I'm so sorry for your loss!!

 

[Barneyboo]

So sorry for your loss for you and your DH x x x x

 

[CeliaM]

I'm so very sorry

 

[kookie]

so sorry hun xx

 

[haaza123]

So sorry for your loss. Stay positive!!
xxx

 

[machka]

I'm so sorry for you and thinking of you and sending my love.

 

[NikiJJones]

Just wanted to say again Sash how sorry I am.
I think you have been really brave, getting back to school so quickly. I'm a teacher too, and I had to have 3 weeks off after my MC, as I just couldn't face teaching. You are AMAZING to have managed to get back so quickly.
Sending a huge for you and DH, and your little angel.

 

[ald]

I am so sorry for your loss hun.

 

[Sash13]

Just wanted to say again Sash how sorry I am.
I think you have been really brave, getting back to school so quickly. I'm a teacher too, and I had to have 3 weeks off after my MC, as I just couldn't face teaching. You are AMAZING to have managed to get back so quickly.
Sending a huge for you and DH, and your little angel.

Thanks, Niki. I actually feel quite well - but that is a bit disconcerting in itself because I feel like I'm waiting for the other shoe to drop.

I went to a baby shower on Sunday. That was very tough. I am elated for my friend (who TTC'd for 2 years before she conceived) and wanted to be there for her, but it was sad for myself. But I made it through and I know she was grateful that I was there.

I am going to my doctor this afternoon for the follow-up appointment. I am still spotting ever so slightly (I am 9 days post-miscarriage) but the heavy bleeding stopped quite a few days ago, thank goodness. I hated that constant reminder of what had happened. I will talk to the doctor today about when he feels it would be safe TTC again ... the sooner the better as far as I am concerned!

 

[NikiJJones]

I seem to remember my heavy bleed was about 2 days, and then I spotted for about another 8-9 days after that. All the doctors told be I was 100% fine to start TTC again straight away, and we did. My cycles were a little wobbly for a few months, and I noticed that my Luteal phase was longer for the first 3 cycles. I got PG again 5th cycle after my MC, but many of the girls who MCed with me in May/June managed to get PG again much quicker than that.
PM me if you ever need to chat, or have any questions about it all. I know what a tough place to be it is, and feel so sad for you.

 

[Alexas Mommy]

 

[beetlebailey]

 

[Sash13]

Thanks everyone. I don't know what I would do without the support here!

Went to the doctor yesterday for the follow up visit after the miscarriage and the doctor said that everything seemed fine. He told me we were safe to TTC whenever we are ready and gave me some good advice. I asked if jogging could have caused/contributed to the m/c and he said probably not ... but to lay off the high-impact exercise for the first 2 months of my next pregnancy, just to put my mind at ease.

Hubby & I have decided to let nature take its course and if it is in the cards, then I will be pregnant again soon. If not, I know it will happen when the time is right.

 

[dan-o]

Great idea & so glad you have the all clear xx