BabyMamma306
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I had my son at 3:05 pm, he left us and went to his family at 5:00 pm. I never met him, never held him and said good bye while he was still inside me. At first the decision seemed like a dream.. that i would wake up and he'd still be in my belly. Now that its been almost 2 weeks, I feel sad.
I feel like I am a failure, I have my daughter but I don't have my son. I know hes doing well and his new parents are happy, but why did this feeling hit me now and not when he left me?
I know wishing for things to be different isn't a great thing, but I can`t help but wish that my family could have met him before he left. His real dad never wanted to meet him and his step dad in a sense has been taking harder than I am. He feels like something is missing in our lives now, I now feel the same.
being with my daughter makes me feel terrible, she asks where did baby brother go, and I don`t know how to tell her he`s gone to a new family...
It hurts knowing he`s with another family and not with us. Anyone else know what I am talking about?
I feel like I am a failure, I have my daughter but I don't have my son. I know hes doing well and his new parents are happy, but why did this feeling hit me now and not when he left me?
I know wishing for things to be different isn't a great thing, but I can`t help but wish that my family could have met him before he left. His real dad never wanted to meet him and his step dad in a sense has been taking harder than I am. He feels like something is missing in our lives now, I now feel the same.
being with my daughter makes me feel terrible, she asks where did baby brother go, and I don`t know how to tell her he`s gone to a new family...
It hurts knowing he`s with another family and not with us. Anyone else know what I am talking about?