shortie1990
Mummy to two under 2 :)
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Bit of a long one but I'll give some background info, my sister and her fiancé split up when their son was 6 months old, (he's 3 next month) it was all a bit nasty and he was a cOmplete knob, left her in debt, and just has nothing to do with their son and didn't help what so ever, him and my OH fell out as they were good friends, and that was that.
My nephew started going to FOB's mums house every weekend but still wasn't seeing his dad(his dads choice) my sister didn't trust him and it was known to nursery he was not allowed to be picked up by that side of the family, as we were concerned about where my sister would stand if he. Picked him up and just decided to keep him..
So we all told my sister to tell him to take her to
Court to make everything official, so they both knew where they stood, of course that hasn't happened and slowly he's made his way back in, and picks him up from nursery has him over night etc, and h and my OH have even started goin out for drinks (not awkward him coming round at all..!)
So me and OH went to the local pub with indoor play area last night and met him there with my nephew, all seemed well, and he was staying there the night, but told me he had been questioned about how much my sister owes nursery (about 3 grand!!) so said he was really embarrassed, and wasn't taking him in the morning and was just going to look after him for the day as he wasn't working (fair enough!)
Next thing I knew my mum was ringing asking my OH to send her his number as he's been round to my sisters and had an argument and said he's keeping my nephew!
It turns out my sister has ended up telling FOB she doesn't want him any more and wants him to have him..(wtf this argument was about I have no idea!) but obviously every one says things they don't actually mean, and she was on the phone crying her eyes out asking for us to ring fob and sort it out!
So what rights do they have? Is she goin to have I go to court and get him back that way? Can he really just keep him?
Any help would be brilliant
My nephew started going to FOB's mums house every weekend but still wasn't seeing his dad(his dads choice) my sister didn't trust him and it was known to nursery he was not allowed to be picked up by that side of the family, as we were concerned about where my sister would stand if he. Picked him up and just decided to keep him..
So we all told my sister to tell him to take her to
Court to make everything official, so they both knew where they stood, of course that hasn't happened and slowly he's made his way back in, and picks him up from nursery has him over night etc, and h and my OH have even started goin out for drinks (not awkward him coming round at all..!)
So me and OH went to the local pub with indoor play area last night and met him there with my nephew, all seemed well, and he was staying there the night, but told me he had been questioned about how much my sister owes nursery (about 3 grand!!) so said he was really embarrassed, and wasn't taking him in the morning and was just going to look after him for the day as he wasn't working (fair enough!)
Next thing I knew my mum was ringing asking my OH to send her his number as he's been round to my sisters and had an argument and said he's keeping my nephew!
It turns out my sister has ended up telling FOB she doesn't want him any more and wants him to have him..(wtf this argument was about I have no idea!) but obviously every one says things they don't actually mean, and she was on the phone crying her eyes out asking for us to ring fob and sort it out!
So what rights do they have? Is she goin to have I go to court and get him back that way? Can he really just keep him?
Any help would be brilliant