Hi everyone. I just updated my signature with mine and my husband's journey up to this point. It has honestly felt like such a long time coming, as it was jarring to learn that all the time we were trying to conceive, we never had a chance. We are fortunate enough to be able to jump right to IVF using donor sperm, as my insurance will cover 100% of the scans, drugs, and procedures. While I passed my testing with flying colors, we liked the higher success rates with IVF and the good odds of us making all of the embryos we'll ever need in just one cycle. With that said, last night we did our initial search on 4 different banks' websites, with minimal results. I think that we're going to have to compromise on some things like ethnic background or physical features. We both feel a lot of pressure because this is such a big decision. Our future children's identity and health are at stake here... So this is partially a vent, but also a plea for advice from anyone who has made this decision. How did you know when you had found the one? Any guidance on what led you to making a decision would be so helpful! Thank you for reading!