Advice ladies?

[stunned]

So, FOB and i had a shakey relationship from the get go, we had been casually dating for a couple of weeks, then when we didnt get along we went our different ways. A month later i found out i was expecting and he was pissed.
He went through the usual stages of "its not mine, blah blah blah" and then he just dissappeared. I heard through many mutual friends that he got another girl pregnant, she took care of it, and he just waltzed on his merry way. We didnt get along, he was a right prick and didnt want anything to do with the baby.

When our daughter was born he came around and i was stupid enough to move in with him. I soon found out what an ass he was when he pretty much expected me to be his slave, clean after his whim, not care if he was chatting up other girls and raise his baby. Needless to say i got fed up of being verbally abused and disrespected so i left. He threw the car seat at me when my daughter was in my arms, threatened to shoot himself and just went bonkers.

Since then he's been threatening to take me to court because i dont update him daily on our daughter (shes 6mnths old... What could she possibly be doing that requires a DAILY update) and he hasnt provided any child support or called to confirm our appointment with mediation.

Hes already dating another younger girl and posts every day on his facebook about how he misses his daughter and how im a 'headcase' who left him just to hurt him. What really bugs me is that he has made no effort to come and see our daughter just because i am looking after her.

Ugh. What do i do?!? Im at the end of my rope, my family is telling me to sever all ties with him but the canadian family law act requires me to 'keep in touch'!!!

Has anyone been in a similar situation and figured it out??

Please, any advice would be wonderful!!

 

[Mammy2Joojx]

no advice hun but i'm sorry you're in that situation

Does he contact you asking about yyour daughter or does he expect you to contact him? X

 

[davidjoemum]

hi maybe get attorney and ask him point that he was abusive mentally verbally and physically towards you in front of your baby and you dont want him to be example to her.i dont know canadian law im from Uk but u might be able to get supervised visits in kind of contact centre where third person like health visitor or social worker is present during visitation so there will be no abuse toward u and ur daughter.i understand ur point i wouldnt want to do nothing with tosser like him.
all the best.xxx