advice needed for my sister

[amylou1992]

right this isnt for me but for my sister, so i will let you all know a bit about the last year (long story cut short)

she got with this lad (off the internet!!) last july, slept wit him the 1st time they met in person (un-protected) and found out she was preg a few weeks later. he then went on to finish her saying shes lieing and that he only wanted her for sex! she emailed him scan pics etc so he knew she wasnt lieing and he was going to be a dad.

anyway she went onto have her LO 6 weeks early in feb, and had no contact with tha babies farther until recently when he added her on facebook out of the blue. still denying the child is his, claiming hes "saveing up for a DNA test" ..... the baby is now 6 months old!!! doesnt take that long to "save up"

whats worse is he is claiming that hes gng to be a dad for the "1st" time in 6 months!!

ive told my sister to see about getting a DNA test done but she carnt afford it atm, shes skint and every penny goes on making sure the LO is provided for, he doesnt pay his way and has never made any attempt to see the LO.


any advice on what she can do?

 

[gemabee]

she needs to go to the csa now! (is there any reason she hasn't done this already????)
they will get a court order in place forcin him to get a dna test... if he doesn't then the csa will jus assume he's the father nd he will have to pay maintenance.
i can kinda see where this guy is comin from tho... if they met off the internet nd met up nd had sex jus the once... then there will obviously be doubt in his mind. he doesn't know ur sister, there's nothin to say that she hasn't slept with anyone else, nd men bein men... if they are disassociated from the situation... they can jus ignore it.
in his mind this child could jus as easily not be his, nd he probably wants to believe its not his... so technically this new baby is goin to be his first child.
if ur sister hasn't done anythin but it yet then it probably jus furthers his beliefs that this child is not his... so she needs to do somethin straight away.
xx

 

[billy2mm]

she needs to go to the csa. it can take long enough to get the dna test done through them so the sooner the better.