newmomkaren
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Hey guys, I would love some advice on my dilemma. My sister has been trying to get pregnant for several years now with no luck. As those of you who have been TTC for a long time would understand, she has been especially sad and emotional about this. I'm four years younger than my sister and I just got married two months ago. Out of the four months that we have been TTC , I have gotten a BFP twice. The first ended in miscarriage a couple of months ago when I was 8 weeks along. I told her about that pregnancy when I was 5 weeks because we are pretty close and I didn't want her to feel left out. Although she was excited for me, I could sense that she had mixed feelings. I just got another BFP yesterday, and last night we talked on the phone about her having possible endometriosis and possible ovarian cancer and needing surgery. I'm nervous about telling her about the pregnancy because of everything that she has been through, but at the same time, I don't want her to feel left out if I don't tell her because we are pretty close. Any suggestions on when to tell her, and when I tell her how should I tell her? I'm worried that if I wait, she'll be upset that I didn't share such big news with her. I love my sister and I don't want to hurt her. I just feel like I'm stuck in a no-win situation.