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sorry again if this isnt the right place to post this....but like iv said youv all been really supportive. I really need advice im so confused ..
OKay so me an my OH have been together for around 5 6 months now...been through alot with losing baby etc...however i think hes just cheated on me
Its really long and confusing sorry
When i was pregnant i met his ex, who was a snidey b***h to me saying things like "oh remember when WE were together" and "come up to my flat for a cosy night" and "IF you get bored im on the third floor"(this was in library at uni)and rubbing against him and OH wasnt pushing her away and didnt introduce me just said "this is kim". Anyhow it turns out she is on his uni course(which he never told me). We argued but it was fine...i dont mind him talk to exes as long as he is honest about it.
He has exams coming up so spends alot of time in the uni library...he was texting me saying he was in the lib with his two lab partners...one called shauna other called becka or something...my mate text me saying "i can see Mike...hes with some girl, kinda all over him"i asked what she meant she said rubbing his back practically on his lap and he keeps calling her "mandy" (his ex from library above is called Amanda". Even though he claimed to be with his lab partners (who both have bfs).
Anyway, his other ex who he "never EVER sees" keeps writing to him on facebook with flirty messages...her facebook is private so i cant see what he replies with and he deletes the comments afterwards, becasue he thinks i havnt seen them. OH is planning to go home this weekend(he never told me this til yesterday but nevermind) and i found a message from his ex saying "so what you wana do when you get back?" on fb...he hasnt mentioned meeting up with her.
Also, last weekend i stayed at his and he was texting the whole night...claimed it was his dad and best mate...in the morning his phone went off and i was still next to him i noticed his inbox had his ex from the library in it...he still keeps saying he doesnt talk/see her!
Im so confused due to him lying and being caught out...has he cheated or is he just being friendly with them? He has also just admitteed that he has experimented with drugs...even though he knows all about my ex and how i wont be with someone who does them!
Also, recently he has not bothered to text me/phone me it is me who has to text him, plus hes been in a very bad mood constantly!
i love him so much, please help
OKay so me an my OH have been together for around 5 6 months now...been through alot with losing baby etc...however i think hes just cheated on me
Its really long and confusing sorry
When i was pregnant i met his ex, who was a snidey b***h to me saying things like "oh remember when WE were together" and "come up to my flat for a cosy night" and "IF you get bored im on the third floor"(this was in library at uni)and rubbing against him and OH wasnt pushing her away and didnt introduce me just said "this is kim". Anyhow it turns out she is on his uni course(which he never told me). We argued but it was fine...i dont mind him talk to exes as long as he is honest about it.
He has exams coming up so spends alot of time in the uni library...he was texting me saying he was in the lib with his two lab partners...one called shauna other called becka or something...my mate text me saying "i can see Mike...hes with some girl, kinda all over him"i asked what she meant she said rubbing his back practically on his lap and he keeps calling her "mandy" (his ex from library above is called Amanda". Even though he claimed to be with his lab partners (who both have bfs).
Anyway, his other ex who he "never EVER sees" keeps writing to him on facebook with flirty messages...her facebook is private so i cant see what he replies with and he deletes the comments afterwards, becasue he thinks i havnt seen them. OH is planning to go home this weekend(he never told me this til yesterday but nevermind) and i found a message from his ex saying "so what you wana do when you get back?" on fb...he hasnt mentioned meeting up with her.
Also, last weekend i stayed at his and he was texting the whole night...claimed it was his dad and best mate...in the morning his phone went off and i was still next to him i noticed his inbox had his ex from the library in it...he still keeps saying he doesnt talk/see her!
Im so confused due to him lying and being caught out...has he cheated or is he just being friendly with them? He has also just admitteed that he has experimented with drugs...even though he knows all about my ex and how i wont be with someone who does them!
Also, recently he has not bothered to text me/phone me it is me who has to text him, plus hes been in a very bad mood constantly!
i love him so much, please help