My sister has sever autism. Aspergers spectrum disorder. She cant speak right and has a lot of issues. She is 15 and seems to be getting so much more worse. This includes a lot of voilence to my parents and mostly to herself.
My parents dont tell me anymore what she is at as they know I will try and intervene as they dont seem to get her help.
They have been listening to hvs,social works and all these poeple for years telling them to ignore her behavior which was always distructive. If you stand up to her expect a black eye now and windows to come through! She has been self harming herself for years now, just randomly punches herself. She used to be covered in bruises , she still is but worse now!
she randomly walks post my mum and smacks her across the back of the head. She punches herself in the face for no reason. She has put through the bathroom window in temper and will not do as she is told. Everything is on her terms. Even visits to my son are limited as she stands there waiting for my parents to leave again and demands they go when she says so.
Always has got her way and been spoiled but this worries me. I tried to talk to mum about it and she accuses me of ridiculing her and dad says he dosntw ant to get into it and that its ok for her to do this as thats how she is. Thats what these coucilors and socials workers still say. No one seems to have help for her at all? I worry she will do fatel damage as she is such an angry teen! she cant say her name at all her speech is so bad and carries teddys about still. She also has taken to peeing in the middle of her bedroom floor and spits for no reason. I thikn thats like a tourettes thing.
who can help with this? any surgestions, I want to give my parents somwhere. They have mentioned care before but they wont do that. My sis will listen to me and others just not parents. She knows how to wind them up.
My parents dont tell me anymore what she is at as they know I will try and intervene as they dont seem to get her help.
They have been listening to hvs,social works and all these poeple for years telling them to ignore her behavior which was always distructive. If you stand up to her expect a black eye now and windows to come through! She has been self harming herself for years now, just randomly punches herself. She used to be covered in bruises , she still is but worse now!
she randomly walks post my mum and smacks her across the back of the head. She punches herself in the face for no reason. She has put through the bathroom window in temper and will not do as she is told. Everything is on her terms. Even visits to my son are limited as she stands there waiting for my parents to leave again and demands they go when she says so.
Always has got her way and been spoiled but this worries me. I tried to talk to mum about it and she accuses me of ridiculing her and dad says he dosntw ant to get into it and that its ok for her to do this as thats how she is. Thats what these coucilors and socials workers still say. No one seems to have help for her at all? I worry she will do fatel damage as she is such an angry teen! she cant say her name at all her speech is so bad and carries teddys about still. She also has taken to peeing in the middle of her bedroom floor and spits for no reason. I thikn thats like a tourettes thing.
who can help with this? any surgestions, I want to give my parents somwhere. They have mentioned care before but they wont do that. My sis will listen to me and others just not parents. She knows how to wind them up.