Advice please ladies :(

[helenas81]

Well today I found a website that my fella has been on. A kinda dating site. His profile said something along the lines of male escort up for anything etc etc. I was so shocked!! I confronted him about it and he said its very old (dates back to 2009) but still we were together. He went on saying its a fantasy thing and has and never would cheat on me.
It went in for a while, him admitting he's been asked to meet up with girls he works with but he never has.
We have been together for 6 years, when we were together we had a very healthy sex life. It now doesn't exist.
I'm just so gutted and upset!! I really don't know what to do anymore

 

[sophie c]

sorry i dont quite no what to say to that other than id be just as upset as you

bug hugs x

xxx

 

[Inge]

mine did something like this recently. set up a page and put his details in and said it wasnt serious. But hed gone through the trouble to put a chat line in, his heigh,build and if he could travel/accomadate girls (even what type of stuff he was looking for)
Im not sure how I feel about it either. Hope you guys work it out

 

[leahsbabybump]

thats rite bad if was my OH he would deffinatly be out onhis arse :-/ he had datingsites while we were split up for 8 months but shut them all down when we got back togeather

 

[helenas81]

mine did something like this recently. set up a page and put his details in and said it wasnt serious. But hed gone through the trouble to put a chat line in, his heigh,build and if he could travel/accomadate girls (even what type of stuff he was looking for)
Im not sure how I feel about it either. Hope you guys work it out

Hope u work it out to x

 

[Lauren25]

Dont know what to say, but i hope you sort things, doesnt sound right if you ask me, hope you get to the bottom of it

 

[Baby France]

That is so wrong and I hate to suggest it, but if its been up since 2009 and you've been together all that time...it kinda points to the fact that he maybe not have been faithful all that time either.

That personally would knock me for six and make me question whether my whole 6 years of relationship was based on lies.

Agree that I would be kicking him out.

 

[tallybee]

^ I agree Baby France, I would be questioning everything too.

to helenas81 and also to Inge I would fall apart if I found something like that about my DH

 

[lepaskilf]

Ooh I wouldn't feel comfortable if this was my OH. You need to start asking some werious questions about your relationship I'm afraid. Not just because of this, but the lack of sex is worrying too!