All BD'd out?

[madkitty]

Do your men get all BD'd out easily or is it just mine - 2 days in a row and thats enough for him for another few days.......grrrr and he uses the excuse that Im dry (TMI!!) when Ive being using pre-seed hahahaha

Is it just mine or could his diabetes be playing a part???

 

[Twinkie210]

Mine is the same way... We BD'd three days in a row last week because I had a + OPK, but now my chart hasn't showed a spike yet, so I am afraid he won't want to keep BDing. He is impossible!

 

[porkypig]

mines the same, but tbh, im all b'd out myself, and look forward to the rest days (we do it every other day) is that bad? lol x

 

[kel3639]

I'm bd'd out as well! DH would love to do it a couple times everyday even but I'm just sick of it!!

 

[missy123]

I'm bd'd out as well! DH would love to do it a couple times everyday even but I'm just sick of it!!

wss^^^ my hubby has a very high sexdrive

 

[kel3639]

he always uses the excuse "maybe your ovulating?!" even tho it probably wasn't possible at that point.. he tries anyways! lol

 

[chiapso]

my dh who is 29 ( i'm 22 ) would have it 3 times a day if he could, i'm the one that gets bored and starts thinking what to make for tomorrow's tea whilse bding!

 

[taylorxx]

I feel you!! My OH has a low sex drive because of his medication.. he used to have a super crazy high sex drive and we'd DTD every single day.. now it's maybe once a week He's going to get off of it or switch medication so hopefully it will get better xx

 

[Skoer1360]

Yup, DH is a once-a-dayer, every other day (which isn't completely awful) but he also can go weeks without so much as a nudge! And that's if he's fed, rested, and doesn't have anything else going on.. You would think I'm torturing him the way he resists it lol

 

[inpghttc]

Hello...I so feel your pain!!! I just posted about being worried that we didn;t BD enough this month. I am 34 and my hubby is 34 and we have been married for 7 years and are just now TTC #1...it frustrates me that sometimes after we BD one night, the next night he will still be able to perform but not finish!! So annoying! So I am always trying to figure out which days we should try to BD and worry that it will be a wrong day and we won't be able to the next!! UGH!

 

[mixedbeautyx]

My boyfriend is usually tired alot cause he has to work really early. I try to make him do it at least once a day, but we could go every other day. Anything more I probably couldnt handle! LOL

 

[Dazed125]

Hehe, glad i'm not alone!

Before we actively started trying to conceive the OH was always "pestering" me! We laugh about it because he used to tell me we should be BDing every day. After a month or two of BDing every day he has now decided 3 times a week is more than plenty for him!!! Bless.

I'm lucky though he will still DTD every day around O if I tell him too, although last month there was definately a day where he looked at me with a do I really have to face!!! lol

 

[griffinh]

I have a hugely high sex drive which dh loves - his issue is ''are we going to hurt our chances by having too much post ovulation'' - and then he cant help it and does it anyway lol so it is irrelevant to us hahahaha

 

[kel3639]

@inpghttc!
We are at the EXACT same CD (well at least had the same O day)! When are you going to test?

 

[U347464]

Do your men get all BD'd out easily or is it just mine - 2 days in a row and thats enough for him for another few days.......grrrr and he uses the excuse that Im dry (TMI!!) when Ive being using pre-seed hahahaha

Is it just mine or could his diabetes be playing a part???

Mine got exhausted after BD-ing for 3 days in a row. He just couldnt get an ejaculation to stay on the 4th consecutive day. His excuse was the opposite as your DH's though. He said I was too wet (too much Preseed) and so he kept slipping. Yeah right.

 

[albs]

glad i'm not the only one! my DH rarely feels like it during the week as he works so hard, so if i OV in the week i doubt anything will happen. we've always been like that, i could go everyday but he's a twice a week thank you very much man. and people are always going on about it being me that want it all the time - i wish!

 

[madkitty]

Haha glad Im not the only one - I told him to get a pot and put it in the fridge and Id use a syringe LMAO

 

[valb]

he always uses the excuse "maybe your ovulating?!" even tho it probably wasn't possible at that point.. he tries anyways! lol

Hahaha, has he been talking to my husband lol Of course he would say great minds think alike I expect. Men!

 

[usmcwife.em]

I can definitely relate. Hubs is one of those guys who is in great health, no extra stress or anything, but just has highs and lows. Some weeks he wants to DTD every day, others it's maybe once a week or once every 2 weeks. It's hard when you're TTC and you don't want to push them or make it feel like a chore either. Try talking to him, that's what we did and it seems to be going well now.. Hope it works out for you hun.

 

[dianamherrera]

I think men just have different sex drives and energy levels. Mine doesn't have a whole lot of energy but generally if I'm up for it, he is too. I think he's enjoyed TTC so far because before we started trying, once a week was usually enough for me. Now he gets it at least every other day. He even says he doesn't mind if I'm just after him for his sperm, lol.