Almost 34 weeks and scared

[HopefulMi]

My last baby was lost to ARPKD, a rare kidney disease and I know Theo doesn't have the disease. He moves all the time and I have CTG's every other day and a scan every other week now.

However, I'm just so terrified of stillbirth, especially since I read today Gary Barlow's wife was 2 weeks from her due date.

So sad

 

[Joanna82]

Hi HopefulMi

Don't think about it, it's just a waste of time and your energy, you have to be positive and collect energy for your baby. Just relax and start doing something that distract you from these thoughts.

I am trying the get pregnant and I will find out next week if I am I already set my mind on being calm and relaxed through my next pregnancy.

I wish you all the best) xx

 

[ttc1soon]

I am so sorry for your loss. Its completely natural to stay scared but you kind of have to put it in the back of your mind and try to focus on the good like feeling him move!

 

[HopefulMi]

Congrats on your BFP ttc1soon, this will be a sticky one

 

[lilys_mom]

I am so sorry for your loss. Its completely natural to stay scared but you kind of have to put it in the back of your mind and try to focus on the good like feeling him move!

I am sending so many warm thoughts your way Hopeful... I lost my little girl at 24-3, but she lived for 2 days in the NICU, but she was completely healthy. up until the very moment she came out, she really preferred when i was laughing, she woiuld kick up a storm. the moment the doctors came in and told me more statistics and bad news and i would freak and cry, she would stop moving for a little bit and her heart beat slowed until i calmed down, so smile and keep your head held hi cause you are almost there to hold your little Theo!