Alone and down

[Bear0609]

Sorry to burden you ladies with my thoughts but I feel like I need like minded people to talk to.

Today AF came, after yet another round of Clomid and a very long time trying. I feel like my OH is annoyed with all my emotions and to be honest I am too. I have the cliche situation of many friends being pregnant after hardly trying at all, I just feel like a reject that's not destined to have children.

I have a very stressful job and no spare time, but I know in this day and age I should be grateful to be employed.

So sorry for the whinge, I just know you are all a friendly bunch and know what this feels like.

Thank you for reading x

 

[LilMissCheer]

I'm sorry chick It's only my second cycle trying but i'm feeling really down hearted today after my false pink line two days ago and two neg frer's since. I din;t want to r&r so just thought i'd offer loads of

 

[MrsV78]

Sorry to hear you're down bear but your time will come. Stay positive. Just remember for every BFN it's one step closer to a BFP.....I also like to believe these people that say 'it just happened' aren't telling us the full story....

 

[kail]

Big hugs to you when you finally get that bfp it will mean so much more for all your trying. Like sun after a storm. Somehow it always seems brighter.

 

[littlebird28]

Big hugs to you. I know (somewhat) how you feel, we're going on the 5th month but I've only ovulated a few times, and they weren't even conducive to getting pregnant. It makes me feel like less of a woman, if that makes any sense. My neighbor just had her sons 1st birthday and announced at the party she was pregnant again. Its the little things that build up, thats for sure. I had to sneak out the back door home! In any event, know that you're not alone, and we'll get to upload those cute "my baby is this size!" tickers soon enough! Im (strangely) excited by that.

 

[Bear0609]

Thanks for all your lovely words of support ladies, I knew this would be the best place to vent.

I'm sure it will happen one day, fingers crossed x

 

[babycakes1982]

Feel the same some days too. Think the important thing is to try and not let yourself stay on a downer/negative frame of mind for too long. Easier said than done when you are having a tough time ttc! But we are all here for you. Better to get your emotions out than keep them bottled up.

 

[wishhopepray]

We can all agree that our emotions get the best of us sometimes especially under these trying times, but we are women and we're allowed to have emotions! Just remind yourself that this Journey should be positive! And keep you head held high! You’re going thru all of this for a Miracle! I am in a similar boat as you! Huggs to you!

 

[AJbabybump]

your not alone. since i came on to this website ive had so many people give me strengh and encouragement. its really overwhelming to see so many people in the same situation. life is unfair, but we will all get our prince or princess's sooner or later. our children will be precious and cherished because we will know how much emotion and feelings went into trying for them.

''we loved you even before you were concieved''

 

[pinkfee]

I'm in the same situation as you, a lot of my close friends are pregnant at the moment and we've been trying for over 18mths. the old came today for me as well, even though this month we weren't really trying very hard, just had a lot on, i'm still feeling down as i thought by not stressing about it this month maybe lady luck would shine on us, doesn't help that i'm babysitting my 1year old neice tonight and have her 1st birthday party to attend tomorrow afternoon either!

i'm with MrsV78 on this though as i think not everyone tells the truth about how long they were trying, or mayb they're not exactly lying but once you've got what you want i.e. a baby you forget about all the stress beforehand and it just becomes insigificant because you've got more things to worry about.

have a big fat glass of wine, or some other treat you've been denying yourself in the tww... i plan on have a few G & T's tomorrow night with a night out with my girls!! gotta find that silver lining!