Me and my ex split at the beginning of the year,I found out last week I am pregnant. I already have a nearly 3 year old who is a handful. I have fallen out with my family as they say I should get rid and that I won't be able to do it. I have said to y ex that the baby can live with him. I just don't feel a bond with this baby like I did my son and I worry that I won't be able to love it. It's been just me and my son for so long that I am worried how he will cope and that I will treat it differently. I just feel so alone and a failure, I don't know what to do.