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am I a bad mum

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Me and my ex split at the beginning of the year,I found out last week I am pregnant. I already have a nearly 3 year old who is a handful. I have fallen out with my family as they say I should get rid and that I won't be able to do it. I have said to y ex that the baby can live with him. I just don't feel a bond with this baby like I did my son and I worry that I won't be able to love it. It's been just me and my son for so long that I am worried how he will cope and that I will treat it differently. I just feel so alone and a failure, I don't know what to do.
 
Hi, I'm expecting my second child as a single parent. It is a tough situation to find yourself in so don't feel bad for feeling the way you do right now. i think you need to decide what is best for you. You are not a failure and your not alone if you ever want to talk feel free to PM me x
 
My second I'll be honest I didn't feel a strong bond with him until he was born. My first I was attached from the second I found out but with my younges me and his dad weren't together and It was hard being pregnant and taking care of my first alone .

Now I don't know what is do without him ,
 

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