am i being reasonable?

[leash]

hey girls how r u all...i went for an ultrasound yesterday n im only 9weeks 2morow...everything went well so very happy about that....after ultrasound i rang my ex n he startd saying i cheatd on him n the baby isnt hes because the ''dates dont match up'' well that made me very upset n i told him where to go..he msgd me later that day saying i want the ultrasound pictures i wil pay u for them n i said weell its not your baby rememba..anyway wat i wantd to ask you girls what are hes rights ? now hes being an ass n wrote on facebook that he was lookn up fatehrs rights for all our friends n family 2 c because i told him he can have the baby every second weekend but the baby isnt staying over night at hes house till it is older n well he didnt like that so now hes being difficult and i think hes gona go legal..hes not going 2 no the baby ruitine or anythin about the baby n hes hopeless im so scared i really dont want him alone with the baby over night on hes own...im only 9weeks pregnant n this stuff is happenin i cant believe its happenin and already its ridiculous..can u imagine wat things r going 2 b liek later on i dont want 2 put my child thru that..
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[starbucks101]

Hey Leash,

Dont worry yourself about it now, Your only 9 weeks pregnant this is still a shock to both of you, there is absolutly nothign that he can do untill the bubba is here, so just let him blow off his steam, throw his paddy and pull himself back together. If he sends horrible messages change your number and see if you can just email him instead, then you both have copies of what is discussed between you.

You are bound to be hormonal and his world has been completly turned on its head, now is not the right time to be argueing about the baby. You need to rest and keep your strength up for the rest of the pregnancy.

But, he will not get overnight access to a newborn if he goes legal anyway. If he wants to go to a solicitor i would recommend you to tell him he does it instead of getting in an arguement about it, as the solicitor will only tell him that he wont get overnight access but is probably looking at 3-4 hours a week supervised contact initally.

Dont worry yourself hun, Enjoy your pregnancy xxx