Am i being stupid?!

[Jinty]

My FOB's Parents are really involved with LO's life. Because im a full time uni student most of the time they have to take her to playschool pick her up etc. Shes recently asked me if her sister could have her regularly and it really bugs me!
I mean i don't get as much time as i want now i got to add someone else in the situation?!

And its the fact that its the rest of FOB's family. Plus im not exactly close to her sister. I have no worries about how LO is going to be looked after. I know she will be fine. It just really bugs me :S

My daughters nans sister... Making it really confusing and messing with my head a little.

You don't normally hear about this sort of relationship especially when the parents aren't together.

>_<

 

[Mammy2Joojx]

will her sister be watching your LO while they're meant to have her? Or while she would be with you? If it's while she's already in someone elses care, i can't see it being a problem hun but if she's wanting her whilst she's in your care i'd just explain that you feel like you don't see your LO enough so you wouldn't be happy with it. X x

 

[ilove3baby]

^^^I agree with what she said )

 

[dustbunny]

Agree with the PP's, if the sister wants your LO in your time then tell her no. If she wants to spend time with your LO when she is already in the care of extended family then I don't see it being a problem unless you don't like or trust her.

Things tend to get a little messy when you try to please everyone at once and if you're not comfy with it then just say no.

 

[Jinty]

She would want her when I should be having her. It just really bugs me because its not my sister or FOB's sister... Its LO's Grandmother's sister. Plus shes got her own grandchild on the way. >_<
Bit of a mind f*ck :S

Thanks though ladies. Most of the people i have spoken to irl have said it is weird.

x

 

[cherry_pie]

I agree with PPs, I would try and explain that you dont get as much time as you'd like due to studying etc but you would have no problem of her spending time with her sis while your at uni!!