am i being unfair? *updated*

[Charlotte-j]

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[moomin_troll]

i dont think ur being unfair cuz only u no what hes like but u did choose to have a baby with him so in that sense he does have a right to see her. is his name on the birth cert?

id maybe give him one chance supervised visit n if he messed up then i could say i tried n i wouldnt let him near her again!

good luck

 

[Charlotte-j]

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[moomin_troll]

well hes guna have to pay to get dna test done lol n pay to take u to court so tell him to bring it on n if hes losing his other kids he wont stand a chance.

he sounds like a d*ck but if hes like he seems he will give up soon enuf

 

[Younglutonmum]

Oh what a twat!!!

 

[nikky0907]

What a moron!

 

[codegirl]

I would start a journal where you can track when you tried to give him information and what the response was. This way, if he does go after you for access, you have a documented trail that shows that he has had no interest.

Try and write down everything, everytime you guys talk/email/text etc.

 

[moomin_troll]

I would start a journal where you can track when you tried to give him information and what the response was. This way, if he does go after you for access, you have a documented trail that shows that he has had no interest.

Try and write down everything, everytime you guys talk/email/text etc.

thats a really good idea! also now u can store texts on the internet so if u get a nasty text save it! im sure everytime he calls u names makes him look worse n worse!

 

[codegirl]

Can you tell I was once married to a complete a**hole?

My mantra: Document, document, document.

 

[xarlenex]

That is out of order!! Jessica's "not worth the hassle" shes a beautiful little precious baby..bloody idiot!! I really wouldnt worry yourself over him,document what happens jst incase he does go to court but I dont think he ever will. Sounds like he just likes to keep you on your toes.

I wouldn't want someone as low as him in my little angels life xx

 

[brownhairedmom]

If he isn't on the birth certificate...he has to take you to court, they'll order he pays for a DNA test which is almost 1000 dollars. Then, he'll take you to court again where the court will decide. This can take months and months and months. And a ton of money. It isn't going to look good on him.