A few weeks ago, my partner and I made an agreement that when I was 4 weeks from due date, he would not drink more than 2 drinks when out. He enjoys quite regular 'sociable' drinks and the last 8 months I've been going out and picking him up when he's drunk.
Last weekend, he went for a 'couple' after work and when he got home he told me he had had 3 pints. That is over the drink-drive limit and I certainly wouldn't get in a car with him. He apologised for breaking our agreement, I was pissed off but let it go.
Today, we went to a 2yo birthday party where he had two bottles of beer. Then he went and played golf and I just called him and he's now in the pub. I reminded him of our agreement and he said "well I only had two bottles earlier, I'mjust having a pint now".
He seems to be thinking now that if he spreads it out throughout the day, then that's fine.
My issue is that I do not want to be in a car with him, if he needs to drive me to the hospital. The last thing I'm going to do is get in a car with him when I'm in labour with our first child.nit seems irresponsible and testing fate.
I have told him that if I go into labour and he has had more than two, he won't be the one taking me to the hospital. Am I being unreasonable? He thinks it's perfectly fine to have more than two if he spreads them out.
This is really frustrating me and causing me some anxiety
Last weekend, he went for a 'couple' after work and when he got home he told me he had had 3 pints. That is over the drink-drive limit and I certainly wouldn't get in a car with him. He apologised for breaking our agreement, I was pissed off but let it go.
Today, we went to a 2yo birthday party where he had two bottles of beer. Then he went and played golf and I just called him and he's now in the pub. I reminded him of our agreement and he said "well I only had two bottles earlier, I'mjust having a pint now".
He seems to be thinking now that if he spreads it out throughout the day, then that's fine.
My issue is that I do not want to be in a car with him, if he needs to drive me to the hospital. The last thing I'm going to do is get in a car with him when I'm in labour with our first child.nit seems irresponsible and testing fate.
I have told him that if I go into labour and he has had more than two, he won't be the one taking me to the hospital. Am I being unreasonable? He thinks it's perfectly fine to have more than two if he spreads them out.
This is really frustrating me and causing me some anxiety