fuffyburra
Hattie Flower's mummy :)
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Well it's our anniversary on Wednesday and Samuel just took overtime for that night, even though he knows I'm working the day and I can't get out of it, and I also REALLY need the money for rent, driving test, etc.
His argument is it's £200 a shift for overtime and it doesn't come around very often. Fair enough. But the money he earns he's putting towards a lads holiday in March, even though he just had one in January, and when I asked if we could have a holiday this year he told me we couldn't afford it, and while we're at it we can't afford to do anything for our anniversary either.
I was so angry I just got out of the car and walked off cos I thought I might actually punch him til he cried. So now I feel like poop He went out with some friends last night after work as well, so he was cream crackered for the whole of the one day I get to see him in nearly a week (because of work), and as he's working a night on Wednesday he's gonna sleep in til about 2 or 3 on Thursday, then be sleepy and grouchy the rest of the time he's up. Brilliant.
Am I beng a bit harsh? I guess I feel unappreciated, and maybe I'm just mad and need some time to calm down and see things clearly, but to me it seems completely unfair!
Sorry to rant girls, I'm just livid right now!! Needed to talk to someone as my mum thinks I'm being unreasonable, but she thinks Samuel's perfect lol. xx
His argument is it's £200 a shift for overtime and it doesn't come around very often. Fair enough. But the money he earns he's putting towards a lads holiday in March, even though he just had one in January, and when I asked if we could have a holiday this year he told me we couldn't afford it, and while we're at it we can't afford to do anything for our anniversary either.
I was so angry I just got out of the car and walked off cos I thought I might actually punch him til he cried. So now I feel like poop He went out with some friends last night after work as well, so he was cream crackered for the whole of the one day I get to see him in nearly a week (because of work), and as he's working a night on Wednesday he's gonna sleep in til about 2 or 3 on Thursday, then be sleepy and grouchy the rest of the time he's up. Brilliant.
Am I beng a bit harsh? I guess I feel unappreciated, and maybe I'm just mad and need some time to calm down and see things clearly, but to me it seems completely unfair!
Sorry to rant girls, I'm just livid right now!! Needed to talk to someone as my mum thinks I'm being unreasonable, but she thinks Samuel's perfect lol. xx