Am I over reacting? :(

[Cassie96]

So on my last post, "baby's dad has bad anger issues, please help!"
I explained the situation and got some really nice comments back from everyone and ive decided to keep well away from him.

although since then it's been worse, and now we hardly talk at all.
Last week we had a conversation about why i wouldnt ever go back to him, which ended in him saying he thinks I'd been cheating in the relationship (I wouldn't dream of that, I think it's discusting), that I was a dirty little slag and so on... So since then I haven't talked to him.

anyway today, I inboxed his sister to let her know that I'm having a sweep on Tuesday (me and his sister sometimes keep in touch as she asks about the pregnancy and so on) and he inboxed me 1h later, with "Why didnt you tell me you were having a sweep next Tuesday" and I replied with "because you haven't cared about any other appointments so why would you care about this one, I said I would ring you when I'm in labour" and he replied "f*** off", "I only care about this baby I couldn't give a f*** what happens to you"

I'm gob smacked, I don't know why because he talks to me like that all the time but it just upsets me everytime he says it. i wouldn't ever dream of talking to him like that, after all he's the one I fell in love with. I've never hurt him or spoken to him like that, I'm genuinely nice to him even when he starts with me.

I don't know why I'm feeling like this, am I over reacting?

 

[Ceejay123]

Ah honey he sounds like a jerk. If I were you I'd keep to yourself until the baby is born, you need to keep your health up. X

 

[Mummy1995]

Agree do NOT tell him anything until your baby is here, you dont want him turning up when you're giving birth, its stressful enough without that. x

 

[Dezireey]

I would just stop any contact for now with his family or friends or with anyone that can relay information back to him. This is a special and vulnerable time for you and you need calm and quiet. I think he is a loser and needs therapy asap. Basically if you contact his sister or anyone that can get in touch with him they will probably tell him when you are in labour and he could just turn up and cause a scene. He appears to like drama so dont give him the opportunity to make it.

Hugs and keep strong.