mama2b
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Please be totally honest with me if you think im over reacting here.
I have been with my bf for 5 years and a year ago we had a bit of a bad patch, I just got really bored and wanted to go out all the time behaved like a bit of a bitch really and he was totally devastated begged me to stay with him and not to finish things. In the end I gave in and gave it a second chance we moved in together at the end of may and everything has been good until pretty much when I found out I was pregnant.
Over the last few months things have got quite bad (in my eyes) a few of his friends have split up with their partners and just want to go out all the time, or sit round at home playing on the wii. Anyway he is virtually out all the time at his friends, and wants to go out every weekend and leave me by myself. We were supposed to go out for a meal tonight but instead he said we'd save money and get a take away and then an hour ago has upped and left to go round his mates !!!
I am sick of it, I don't mind him going out but not every bloody night especially when I can't really go out, he even wants to leave me on my own on new years eve. We have had quite a few 'chats' about this and he seems to think ive lost my mind.
I feel really trapped, if i was pregnant id either go out all the time myself or I really would of told him to do one and moved back to my parents. Obviously I can't do either now and its really, really getting me down.
What can I do ? Its like he is obsessed with now being with his friends 24/7
I have been with my bf for 5 years and a year ago we had a bit of a bad patch, I just got really bored and wanted to go out all the time behaved like a bit of a bitch really and he was totally devastated begged me to stay with him and not to finish things. In the end I gave in and gave it a second chance we moved in together at the end of may and everything has been good until pretty much when I found out I was pregnant.
Over the last few months things have got quite bad (in my eyes) a few of his friends have split up with their partners and just want to go out all the time, or sit round at home playing on the wii. Anyway he is virtually out all the time at his friends, and wants to go out every weekend and leave me by myself. We were supposed to go out for a meal tonight but instead he said we'd save money and get a take away and then an hour ago has upped and left to go round his mates !!!
I am sick of it, I don't mind him going out but not every bloody night especially when I can't really go out, he even wants to leave me on my own on new years eve. We have had quite a few 'chats' about this and he seems to think ive lost my mind.
I feel really trapped, if i was pregnant id either go out all the time myself or I really would of told him to do one and moved back to my parents. Obviously I can't do either now and its really, really getting me down.
What can I do ? Its like he is obsessed with now being with his friends 24/7