Lilly12
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I feel like I'm going nuts..
I always knew that I wanted to have kids..I've had this maternal instinct since I was very young..
Me and my husband have been married for a year, and he never thought about having kids before, ever.
I started talking about it a few months ago, and he would get annoyed with me..telling me "someday" he'll want to have a child.
Now last month I missed my period and we thought I might be pregnant (even though we had sex with a condom), then he told a few people at his work about it and they were so happy for him, and he said he got a little excited but scared, and he said that he'd totally support me etc and he'd be happy.
Now I know that I wasn't pregnant by several BFN & my period just started a few days ago..so I was talking to him about babies etc.
He talks about it normally now without getting annoyed or mad at me, so thats an improvement, and I asked him when he'd want to have a child and he said before he turns 34, and that's even pushing it (meaning he wants to have a child probably before he turns 34)...he turns 31 next month..so thats within 3 years.
I know I should be happy, but I'm not really.
This feeling I have is SO strong, it's basically all I can think about.
Everything in our life is perfect, in every way. We have a great appartment, great family, good income, great marriage!
It's making me feel depressed having to wait so long! Although in my head I know 3 years isn't that much since the past year has flown by so quick, but my body is driving me nuts!!!
I feel like we would be such great parents and he thinks so too, and everyone arounds us even wants us to have a child, family & friends, so we'd have such a great support system too.
He said something about that he's a little scared because I'd be a stay at home mom and he'd be the only one bringing in money..the the next day he says he isn't scared at all..
Im glad that he finally told me that he wants to have a family with me, and that he wants to be a daddy before he turns 34..AWESOME!! Im really happy that he FINALLY said that..but still...
I'm going crazy..it's litterly all I can think about, this is the strongest internal feeling I've ever experienced..
can anyone relate?
that'd be great, knowing im not the only one!!
btw Im turning 25 in june and my husbands turning 31 next month.
I always knew that I wanted to have kids..I've had this maternal instinct since I was very young..
Me and my husband have been married for a year, and he never thought about having kids before, ever.
I started talking about it a few months ago, and he would get annoyed with me..telling me "someday" he'll want to have a child.
Now last month I missed my period and we thought I might be pregnant (even though we had sex with a condom), then he told a few people at his work about it and they were so happy for him, and he said he got a little excited but scared, and he said that he'd totally support me etc and he'd be happy.
Now I know that I wasn't pregnant by several BFN & my period just started a few days ago..so I was talking to him about babies etc.
He talks about it normally now without getting annoyed or mad at me, so thats an improvement, and I asked him when he'd want to have a child and he said before he turns 34, and that's even pushing it (meaning he wants to have a child probably before he turns 34)...he turns 31 next month..so thats within 3 years.
I know I should be happy, but I'm not really.
This feeling I have is SO strong, it's basically all I can think about.
Everything in our life is perfect, in every way. We have a great appartment, great family, good income, great marriage!
It's making me feel depressed having to wait so long! Although in my head I know 3 years isn't that much since the past year has flown by so quick, but my body is driving me nuts!!!
I feel like we would be such great parents and he thinks so too, and everyone arounds us even wants us to have a child, family & friends, so we'd have such a great support system too.
He said something about that he's a little scared because I'd be a stay at home mom and he'd be the only one bringing in money..the the next day he says he isn't scared at all..
Im glad that he finally told me that he wants to have a family with me, and that he wants to be a daddy before he turns 34..AWESOME!! Im really happy that he FINALLY said that..but still...
I'm going crazy..it's litterly all I can think about, this is the strongest internal feeling I've ever experienced..
can anyone relate?
that'd be great, knowing im not the only one!!
btw Im turning 25 in june and my husbands turning 31 next month.