Am I wrong? what a loser of losers,king loser

[Danie1stbaby]

FOB has not seen or called to check on his daughter since august 1st.He has been to jail and now out.Called and sent messages to the pregnant teenage escort,but not once reached out to his child.

So I texted him today and he kept trying to call me.I pushed ignore and sent him text instead.I realized men understand you better when they are reading your words instead of hearing you scream.

I know I shouldn't have contacted him,but I felt like reminding the loser that he is a loser.He does not seemed phased at all,he had the nerve to say he will pray for me and he will give our baby when he can.He donates plasma to buy alcohol and drugs....so why can't he help with her.

He has child support court for our daughter tuesday,he has not paid a dime or ever gotten her anything.He told me to take child support out on him,so I DID.He has been back and forth bc I allowed him to be.Not anymore~ Worse almost 4 yr of my life.Can't believe I was with him,don't regret my daughter but my goodness ,why didn't I run? He was always a loser,and now I selfishly brought a child into the equation.My first pregnancy ever....I feel so sorry for my child,but would be even more hurt if I allowed him to be in and out of her life.

So am I wrong to have called him all those names? He was a *******,loser,jerk,weak,etc I am just tired of him thinking he is the only one with issues.when you have a child,your issues do not matter! ugh I hate his guts

Can those venting text to him affect us in child support court? he owes child support and hasn't paid one red cent.I am guessing it will not affect the fact he has to pay the support....right? I am thinking after I cursed him out smh

 

[missmadison]

i don't know anything about child support yet, but i'm quite sure your angry messages could not affect any outcome. in fact, i'm sure everyone who goes through this crap has exchanged some heated words in one form or another!

but exactly like you said: I feel so sorry for my child,but would be even more hurt if I allowed him to be in and out of her life. i also believe that the coming and going of a parent is more hurtful than raising her on your own. in fact, it sounds like you both are SOOOO much better off without him and his whore.

you shouldn't beat yourself up for contacting him and getting angry. honestly, i'd probably do the same thing. but, i know when i do things like that, i usually just end up feeling worse and ask myself why did i even bother talking to that loser? just look at your beautiful little girl, realize that maybe she is the sole reason you ever met him, and it's not something you would take back

 

[teal]

I ask myself the same question, why didn't I leave before I became pregnant. Hindsight is a wonderful thing, shame we don't see that way at the time.

I think it's more damaging for a parent to be in and out a childs life when they feel like compared to no contact at all.

I personally don't claim child support, and I'm not in the US, but I imagine he'd still have to pay regardless of his relationship with you.

Sending you hugs xx

 

[okaypriscilla]

I don't think that it will necessarily effect you in regards to child support because no matter what unkind words you used or what your opinion of him is, your child still deserves the money and that's really all there is to it. He still has an obligation to his child. Tell him to invest in condoms with some of that plasma money.