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[flowers123]

Ithink I do yeah. When i read the negative readings on the tests i was gutted. My mum kept saying "well thats good then isnt it" but its not. I have nothing else to live for, and when i thought I was pregnant i thought I finally had something! Im going no where in school. I left last year and got no where, so I went back in september to try again and its still the same. I hate it. I have no friends around by me, not guys nothing. My parents split up in august too. I dont know what to do anymore! I want this baby, i really do. I couldnt possibly get rid of it for anything. Just something to love that loves me back no matter what would be so so amazing.

 

[flowers123]

Sorry went off on one there... hope you feel better soon hun x

 

[xarlenex]

Im sorry if this seems out of line but I just wanted to say that maybe with how your feeling about yourself right now it is a good thing it was negative. It doesnt really seem fair to bring a baby into the world because you feel low. I know someone who thought a baby would fill a gap and now regrets it. I think maybe waiting until your at a better place in your life will be better for you and a baby in the end. But yea it is your life and im sorry if I was out of place sayin this x

 

[TashaAndBump]

Sorry to hear that you didn't get the result you wanted, hun. There are a number of things that your late period could be due to, some of which could be dangerous to your health so it's important that you go to your doctor to get checked out about this.

It could simply be because you've been so stressed that your period has not come on... A few other things to consider are, have you lost or gained a lot of weight lately? This can cause your period to be late or even to stop altogether. Another things it could be, which would explain your phantom pregnancy symptoms, is a missed miscarriage... I don't want to scare you, and while there are a lot of unconcerning factors it could be down to, you won't know what is causing you to be late until you go to your GP and get yourself checked out. It is important to do this, to a) put your mind at rest, and b)diagnose and treat any problem if there is one, before it becomes more serious.

I wish you the best of luck, and really hope that everything goes okay for you at the doctors.

Best thing is to head down there asap to find out for sure x

 

[flowers123]

Thanks guys. I respect what youre saying xarlenex you might be right for all i know. And Ill go to the doctors to find out whats going on. My mums taking to to a family planning clinic this evening to find out for SURE whether Im pregnant or not, even though we both think it would have shown up on the test if I was coz Im so late. Ah well. Ill let you know what happens. Thanks for everything x

 

[baby.girl]

Hey, Im 17 and over christmas I started sleeping with this guy I knew. We had unprotected sex and now I think I may be pregnant. Ive had quite a lot of early pregnancy symptoms like going to the loo more often, tiredness, laziness, stomach cramps, constipation (!), feeling sick and heaving (but not actually being sick) and emotional.

I have to wait another week before I can find out whether Im pregnant or not and Im so scared. I dont even know which will scare me more, finding out that Im pregnant, or finding out that Im not pregnant?! I just feel so attached to something that might not even be there, and if I find out that it isnt, I dont know what Ill be like. My friend said to me today that she doesnt think Im preganant, so I shouldnt worry so much, and that hurt so much!

Does anyone think I might be pregant, or does this sound normal to you? Has anyone else ever felt this way?

I know exactly what you mean. GOOD LUCK!!! Hope you get a BFP!!!

 

[baby.girl]

oops, i'm so sorry. I should have read more before i posted the last message. I'm sorry ... Keep your head up, Hope you feel better!

 

[flowers123]

Hey I went to the docs and they did a test for me and it came back negative. So that settles it. They told me Ive gotta go get checked for STIs though :'( Im so scared. I HATE the guy for doing this to me. I didnt even want sex in the first place! If hes given anything to me, Im gonna make his life a living hell. Prick :'( x

 

[leeanne]

Hey I went to the docs and they did a test for me and it came back negative. So that settles it. They told me Ive gotta go get checked for STIs though :'( Im so scared. I HATE the guy for doing this to me. I didnt even want sex in the first place! If hes given anything to me, Im gonna make his life a living hell. Prick :'( x

Wishing you good luck and prayers!

 

[xclairex]

still dont understand why u havent come on hun! but best to get everythin checked so ur not worryin

 

[flowers123]

The doc said its natural for teenagers to miss periods sometimes :S Stress from school ect which Ive been receiving a lot of recently!! She said that they dont look into them until about 6 months of it :S if that makes sense.
Anyways, good luck to you all, and I hope everything works out best for you you all deserve it. Youre all amazing people. Thanks for all your support over the last couple of weeks.
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