froggyfrog
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Hello all, dh and I are attending an information seminar next week with an adoption agency. We have been ttc for five years and many times talked about adopting. We decided that its finally time to stop talking about it and pursue it. We have spent the last few months kind of done with ttc, but a part of my heart still mourns not being able to get pregnant. Please dont get me wrong, I dont feel like I have to carry a baby for it to be mine. I don't care where my baby comes from, or what they look like, I just know that we are above being ready for a child. Im feeling really guilty to the little boy or girl that we adopt for feeling sad that I wont get to ever be pregnant. Is this normal? Should I wait to adopt before im fully over not getting pregnant, or will this feeling even ever go away?