Any advice for someone giving up on having a positive result!

[SarahH1987]

Me and my husband have been trying for a baby for over 6 months now and I do the same thing every month when it comes to the two week wait!!! I test test test and get the big fat negative.

This month I have been a lot better and tested yesterday at 11dpo and today at 12dpo...ovulated very late in the month!

I keep getting the big fat negatives and was wondering if anyone has gone on to have a positive result after having negatives early or am I just going to get the nasty witch of a period in a few days time?

Anything to cheer me up would be greatly appreciated x

 

[TWO2TANGO]

How old are you? give it another 6 months before you start getting unmotivated. Most people conceive in the first year, so you still got 6 months left to go. Then if you're not pregnant by then, go see a Doctor, you could even go now just to get a blood panel and semen analysis of your husband. Medicine has come a long long way and there is so much hope out there that you may still get pregnant in the next 6 months without medical intervention, and if not, then with medical intervention and there is nothing at all wrong with that.

Keep the faith!! The best things come to those wait, but better to those who do! Keep going you got this!

 

[Bevziibubble]

Hi and welcome to BabyandBump!
Good luck!

 

[SarahH1987]

Thanks for the reply. I’m almost 28 and husband is 31.

I’ve got quite a few medical conditions so we kind of assumed that we would need help really.

I have PCOS, Hypothyroidism and Hashimotos Disease. Was just hoping that we would fall naturally and have to avoid all the medical intervention but we shall see.

I’m 14dpo now and period due today but no signs of it.

We will just keep trying and see what happens.

Thanks for your reply x

 

[Gemma James]

Hi I'm having the same problem I've been trying to conceive for 5months and pretty much the same as u I'm 6dpo today and I am half feeling hopeful and half feeling negative that it will just be negative again this cycle I really hope not I bd 3days before ovulation and one day before ovulation I didn't do it on the day so I'm thinking there's less of a chance just feel abit down I stupidly tested today bfn obviously I just feel like I've had symptoms of pregnancy but I know deep down its probably not going to happen and I'm not

 

[RainbowDrop_x]

Welcome to BnB

 

[BelleNuit]

Since you have pcos maybe do a bbt chart one cycle to make sure you're ovulating.

We had unexplained infertility and got pregnant naturally on our 38th cycle. So don't lose hope yet LOL most people are pregnant after a year

 

[charlieleeto]

Me and my husband have been trying for a baby for over 6 months now and I do the same thing every month when it comes to the two week wait!!! I test test test and get the big fat negative.

This month I have been a lot better and tested yesterday at 11dpo and today at 12dpo...ovulated very late in the month!

I keep getting the big fat negatives and was wondering if anyone has gone on to have a positive result after having negatives early or am I just going to get the nasty witch of a period in a few days time?

Anything to cheer me up would be greatly appreciated x

Hey Sarah! I had a similar experience. My husband and I have been trying for 5 months. For the first 3 months I was checking ovulation with strips and taking my temp. Last month I was so sure I was pregnant when I had a very short spotty period, but kept getting negatives. At that point I sort of "stopped trying" just because i was getting discouraged. I ended up getting a positive a few weeks later. Not sure if it was just too early to tell for me or if we ended up getting pregnant once I stopped "trying". I hope that helps a bit!

 

[WendyJ90]

Good luck!