Any thing will help

[sandy28]

I'm new here... I have been trying for the past 4 mth. i have been tracking my ovulation ever mth and still no pg. Not sure what i'm doing wrong.

 

[avistar]

Hello! I am in the same boat, been ttc for 4 months. I am currently waiting to see what AF does....I am 4 days late according to a 32 day cycle. Don't feel bad, it takes some women forever to get preg. It doesn't mean that there something wrong with you or your partner. Have you been watching what your cervical mucus is like through out your cycle? Any symptoms of Oing?? I have had irregular periods and they are such a pain when you are ttc! Are your periods regular???

You will find lots of help on this site!!! Best of luck to you

 

[sandy28]

Thanks, My period is regular every month it come on a 31 day cycle. And i start ovulation on the 14 day or 16 day. every month i think i have pg sign ,funny but sad. I hope i dont get my period on the 6th.

 

[avistar]

i hope you don't either Try to keep a positive out look. I know when you ttc you drive yourself nutty thinking that your body has all these things, but it could be just premenstrual symptoms. But a good thing is that AF cramping and such are also similar to preg symptoms. Sounds like you are doing a good job tracking your O time. Are you using opks?

 

[sandy28]

I have been using the clear blue ovulation kit and every time it give me the two dark lines i get busy but every month i get my period. I even went to the doctor and they would not do any test becuase they say it has not been a year and to keep trying. Should i be doing something different.

 

[sandy28]

I really want to be pg. I even had a dream that i had was hold a baby girl.

 

[avistar]

Yeah docs wont do anything unless you have been ttc for over a year. I don't think you are doing anything wrong. You could try preseed or evening primrose oil to help build more cm, which will help the sperm travel better and live longer inside you. I know how the longing to become preg feels! I have weird dreams with babies all the time! They freak me out sometimes....Don't give up!!! Sounds like you are doing everything according to when you O! It will happen for you! I really hope you get that BFP!!!! It takes an average of 6 months for 50% of couples to conceive...I have read that and a friend just reassured me of these statistics earlier today (25% of couples take less than 6 months, 75% of couples within a year).

 

[Arcanegirl]

It sounds like you are doing everything right.
Even for a normal healthy couple it can still take up to a year to get pregnant.
Chin up, youll get there

 

[faith_may]

Hi, and welcome, if you need anything please let me know.

 

[NeyNey]

Hubby and I have been trying for a little over two years.
Hang in there....the journey has just become
I hope it's a short one and you get a soon!

 

[tinytoes]

sounds like you're doing fine.

personally I used one of these online calendar things to work out what week I'd be most fertile and I made sure to try and BD once a day during this week. Sometimes BD before ovulation can be good see - as the sperm can be waiting around ready for that egg to pop out and can get busy trying to crack it right away!
https://www.healthatoz.com/healthatoz/Atoz/tl/misc/duedate/entfert.jsp


Might be worth a try?

I also did daft thigns like trying to do the byclcle legs in air thing after BD. Not sure if it helped, but that month I got my BFP. Best of luck to you!!

 

[poppy]

I have been using the clear blue ovulation kit and every time it give me the two dark lines i get busy but every month i get my period. I even went to the doctor and they would not do any test becuase they say it has not been a year and to keep trying. Should i be doing something different.

Hi Sandy!

I find the Clearblue Digital OPKs really good. Do you try BBDing a day or two before you get the positive on your OPK as well as when you get your positive? Some people have a really short time from getting the positive and actually ovulating - you have to allow time for the little swimmers to get on up to the fallopian tubes, this actually takes some time. I would suggest BDing a day or two before you expect to get the positive on your opk and on that day as well.

However, like others have said, it does seem to be a game of pure chance!!

Good luck hun! Hang in there, it will happen for you - four months is not that long at all!

 

[Iwantone!!!]

I really want to be pg. I even had a dream that i had was hold a baby girl.

when my mate who im dead clsoe with was pregs i had a dream she was havig a boy and it was the opposite she ended up with a girl i hope ur get ur bfp asap xxxxx

 

[sandy28]

Thanks for everything. Everything help's and i feel alot better. i was getting very sad and every time i would see someone pg i would feel .

I will let all you know what happens on the 7th. I have never been late on my period.

 

[sandy28]

thank you . I have also try staying in bed right after. i'm staying alway from coffee but i drink alot of green tea. i will try the byclcle legs next time. thanks.