Any words of advice

[Agiboma]

I'll try to keep this short, FOB recently told me he is not ready to be a dad and im gonna be doing this on my own. Honestly ladies i am so depressed i dont know where to start? How do i do this, raise my son alone? I hate him for this, i truly hate this man.
He has business overseas and he will be leaving in a few days says he is coming back in March, i want to tell him dont bother? What do you think? Im so lost and not sure what to do.

 

[Laura2919]

And he has decided that now after 14 months? Honestly sometimes. I would tell him not to bother but really you shouldnt sink to his level, just you care for yourself and your LO. Dont let him affect you.

 

[cluelessnow]

I can't believe some men! I'm so sorry for you. Don't let him get to you. It's hard but stay calm and look after yourself and LO. Is he coming back in March and only temporary, is that what he means? It depends if he does this often when you have an argument or it's definitely a permanent decision. If he means it permanently, you need to at least keep in contact to deal with the finances etc. But if he's not even willing to help financially, then yes, tell him don't bother come back