I need help.
With my first (which is now 3 1/2) beautiful baby boy. I suffered with severe PPD/A. I'm going to try and make a huge story short. I had a horrifying delivery experience. My son almost didn't make it, he was 9 lbs 7 ounces and they forced me to have him vaginally. I suffered a 3rd degree tare. After he finally came out he was rushed out of the room . He had 14 ccs of amniotic fluid in his lungs and was completely blue and not breathing. He also suffered shoulder discotia at birth as well. All of the blood vessels in his eyes had popped from the pressure. He ended up having to have physical therepy for the first year of his life because he wasn't able to move that arm..or turn his head to that side. Needless to say he was also prescribed a helmet because he developed a flat spot on that one side. It was traumatic for the both of us. Any who to get where I was going.... I ended up getting severe ppd/a weather the traumatic birth had anything to do with it or not. It started on my way home from the hospital....I wanted to leave that place so bad but for some reason I kept feeling this urge to go back. I got home where a few family members awaited to greet us. I felt fine other than the feeling of exhaustion. We sat on my bed as I was feeding my son and we were all talking then all a sudden a panic attack hit, I knew what it was as I have had them in the past so I told my mom and she took my son so I could get some rest. I wish that I could say that was it but no.....that was just the start. I woke up a different person....shear panic...the worst ever. The feeling was so intence. I never felt like hurting my son but myself...that was a different story. I remember telling my mom that ID rather die then feel this way any any longer. This went on for a few days and then I got help. Needless to say I want another baby so bad but am afraid to go through that again. Has anyone experienced something similar??? Please help.
With my first (which is now 3 1/2) beautiful baby boy. I suffered with severe PPD/A. I'm going to try and make a huge story short. I had a horrifying delivery experience. My son almost didn't make it, he was 9 lbs 7 ounces and they forced me to have him vaginally. I suffered a 3rd degree tare. After he finally came out he was rushed out of the room . He had 14 ccs of amniotic fluid in his lungs and was completely blue and not breathing. He also suffered shoulder discotia at birth as well. All of the blood vessels in his eyes had popped from the pressure. He ended up having to have physical therepy for the first year of his life because he wasn't able to move that arm..or turn his head to that side. Needless to say he was also prescribed a helmet because he developed a flat spot on that one side. It was traumatic for the both of us. Any who to get where I was going.... I ended up getting severe ppd/a weather the traumatic birth had anything to do with it or not. It started on my way home from the hospital....I wanted to leave that place so bad but for some reason I kept feeling this urge to go back. I got home where a few family members awaited to greet us. I felt fine other than the feeling of exhaustion. We sat on my bed as I was feeding my son and we were all talking then all a sudden a panic attack hit, I knew what it was as I have had them in the past so I told my mom and she took my son so I could get some rest. I wish that I could say that was it but no.....that was just the start. I woke up a different person....shear panic...the worst ever. The feeling was so intence. I never felt like hurting my son but myself...that was a different story. I remember telling my mom that ID rather die then feel this way any any longer. This went on for a few days and then I got help. Needless to say I want another baby so bad but am afraid to go through that again. Has anyone experienced something similar??? Please help.