Hi all I'm 33 (34 in August) and my DH and I have been ttc for 26 months. I have a son from my previous marriage (he'll be 5 in April) and DH has 3 children from 2 previous relationships (12, 9 & 3). We've had lots of tests done and know that I am ovulating well and DH has sperm although his sample was a little on the low side but nothing to concern our specialist. I also had a lap & dye in november and found from that that my tubes are a bit "concertinaed" (they go narrow then widen up then narrow etc etc) which they thinkw as caused by having an emergency c-section at almost full dilation with my son! But there is still a way through as they got the dye through so they can't find any reason why we can't conceive!
I had a mc at 5 weeks a year ago and they think that coupld have been ecptopic but that is somethign that we will never know for sure!
DH is going for another SA but this time is having a specialist test called a Swim Up test so then we will know exactly what we are dealing with.
Unfortunately as wel both already have children, all be it from previous relationships, we aren't able to get IVF on the NHS so if we do decide to go down that route then that'll be something we have to pay out for ourselves1 Its about £3,500 which we can't afford at the moment so we're gonna start trying to save a bit here and there and carry on trying for 18 months and then if we haven't managed it naturally hopefully we'll have the money saved for at least 1 shot at IVF.