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Was just wondering if anyone is geting back into the dating thing?
I've been on a coupple dates with the same guy since me and John split and it feels great. I was so scared of never meeting anyone cause no one my age (19) would want to go near someone with a child, but I must say this guy seems keen! :lol: I've not introduced him to Kyle though, and dont plan to unless I know things are going to work out, but I guess im kinda worried that when I do he might get scared and run! :dohh:
 
I hope it works out for you, and any man that runs is not worth it x
 
I agree with kaci. I hope it works out for you hunni.

I'm not dating just yet. I'm having some 'me' time before I start looking again. I don't think i'll be ready for another partner until a year or so. Give myself time to enjoy myself after being in a ridiculous relationship for a year & half. Then I'll start looking. But men are out of the equasion for me at the momento.

:D
 
I agree with kaci. I hope it works out for you hunni.

I'm not dating just yet. I'm having some 'me' time before I start looking again. I don't think i'll be ready for another partner until a year or so. Give myself time to enjoy myself after being in a ridiculous relationship for a year & half. Then I'll start looking. But men are out of the equasion for me at the momento.

:D

Same. I have been on a few dates, but not looking for ANYTHING NEAR serious for at least a year & a half.
 
I've been with my new fella just over 3 weeks now.. he's met Tom twice now and adores him :)

We're moving in together soon :)
 
I am seeing someone but we've agreed to start things after Christmas.
Not something I was planning on,but am glad I've found him :)

Of course,things will go really slow and I'm not getting serious for a LONG time.
 
I am seeing someone but we've agreed to start things after Christmas.
Not something I was planning on,but am glad I've found him :)

Of course,things will go really slow and I'm not getting serious for a LONG time.

when do you think you'll let him meet Lola? I'm really unsure about this bit lol I mean, the guy im seeings more than willing to meet him, but I just dont know yet.
 
You know,I'm still not sure on it either....

She's so young so I don't think it matters much if he meets her now.I mean,I'm gonna be having a Christmas dinner at my place and he'll definitely meet her there.

BUT,just meet her,no actual role in her life...When the two of us see each other it will be on the time she is with her dad.
I really want to keep that part of my life (dating,relationships) separate from her.
 
I'm not dating anyone. Half because I don't want to and half because I live in the most uncivilized part of the country where the men haven't evolved from apes yet.

I agree though that when I do meet someone, I'll be keeping my dating life seperate from Renah. I'm not looking for a dad for her, I'm looking for a person to be in a relationship with, so he won't be playing an active role in her life unless things decide to become serious.
 
Im not seeing anyone yet find it hard to find someone who is willing to be with me with having a child let alone the fact she is disabled everyone I have meant seems to run away when they find that bit out xx
 
I have although got somebody who still likes me. We used to be 'Going with' eachother before I got with my baby's dad. Going with meaning just snogging eachother every weekend when I went up he's end clubbing. lol. Nothing more than that. I'd always had a soft spot for him back then, and still do now. We've just got talking again, and he said he's missed me and my kisses, and wishes we would have gotten together then. He's still single & he said to me yesterday he wants a girl like me to settle down with, cause he can't see no arguing or anything. Aww. :) I said I hav a baby now, does that not put you off. And he was like, Not one bit, I've always liked you and wanted get with you back then but I was shy. And I think he is the most perfect lad I've ever known. He doesn't mess girls around. I don't think he'd cheat. And he doesn't mind me having a baby. And he is stunnin! I mean, fookin sexilicious ha ha. So when we're both ready, I think he is my next partner, he he. Were textin none stop aw, my heart skips a beat when I talk to him. It's like back in the days when I had a massive crush on him lol. So yeah. He's the one I want - but not until I'm ready. Which could be a little while yet. He he. But who says we can't go on dates, n go out together!? Nobody :) Aw i'm so happy. I don't know why I was with my ex. People have said since I've split up with him, I was way to good for him. And it's made me feel on top of the world ha ha. :D
 
Aw Donna he sounds lovelyy :)

Well my ex is very much involved in Kyles life, Although I dont want this guy to play 'daddy' I just want him to be comfortable around him. I keep saying we aren't together but we more or less are really. I really like him and everyone keeps telling me how I seem so much happier now. I believe i am too. All his pals have told me they've never seen him this way about a lassie before and all tell me that he talks about me non stop lol which is cutee.

Anyway, I know my dad is gonna ask to meet him. More than likely on boxing day..(I go over every year for dinner) and I just want Sam (new guy im seeing) to be comfortable with Kyle. Because its going to be difficult enough for him with the other half of my family with all eyes on him. He said he's ready to meet Kyle n stuff..but I keep putting it off :dohh: no idea why!!
 
Awww. He sound`s like he`s really into you. :) And good on you for being happier now. That`s great. I`m sure he and Kyle will get on fine. :D Aw I think you`re just scared he`ll run off or something, lol. But I bet he won`t. If he`s saying he`s ready to meet him. He sound`s like he`s interested. But obviously you don`t have to rush into it. Good luck for when you decide they meet hunni. Hehe.

My ex is having nothing to do with Lexie. He keep`s saying he has rights but I aint having him involved. Not a chance. I`ve gone through this alone, but he want`s to know her when she`s here. I don`t think so. Why are ex`s tools!? Lol.
 
i am seeing sum1..as most of u know i am pregnant..this was hard for me at 1st i didnt want him 2 feel obligated in anyway and im 19 hes 20 thers only so much i can do with my life as im having a baby i dont want 2 hold him down..he doesnt mind that im pregnant and says hed b with me either way and wants 2 take things further i want this but am scared of how people will react since i am pregnant and its not hes baby..hes step dad met hes mum when she was pregnant with him and well he conciders him as hes dad and they r stil 2gethr so i think that is anotha reason he doesnt mind..i think im just scared.
 
I just wish I could find someone who doesnt do a runner when they find out my daughter is disabled xxx
 
I just wish I could find someone who doesnt do a runner when they find out my daughter is disabled xxx

:hugs: It really shouldn't make a difference, but unfortunately not everyone thinks like that. I'm sure a decent guy will come along soon xx
 
I just wish I could find someone who doesnt do a runner when they find out my daughter is disabled xxx

Think of it as a good way to filter out the chicken sh1ts / scared of committement types early on without having to find out down the line.

You just have to wait for the right guy to come along.
 
For a young woman you are very wise! I don't involve my son and I've been doing this single mom biz for 4 1/2 years. If it doesn't work out then your little one has to deal with hurt and loss. Good for you!
 

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